I forgot to mention... we also ride to work together! Lol, I've only known him for a few months but boy oh boy!
I don't want to make it sound like he's the devil incarnate, he's actually one of the few people that I can have a real conversation with (although sometimes the tongue ring is distractin!
), he's just lost as lost can be and doesn't want found. I guess it's convenient that he wasn't taught that there is an eternal hell, so even if he chose to believe he doesn't think anything will happen to him.