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16  Theology / Debate / Re:Domestic Violence Against Men in America on: September 23, 2004, 06:36:43 AM
You're  welcome
17  Theology / Debate / Re:Men's Rights and Status Today on: September 23, 2004, 06:35:00 AM
Met  any  Feminazis  lately  ?  How  about  those  gender-biased  cops  who  automatically  assume  man  equals  abuser and woman  equals  victim  ?    This  anti-male  bias  is  what   I  have  vowed  to  fight  until   I  die.  peace.
18  Theology / Debate / Men's Rights and Status Today on: September 20, 2004, 08:36:35 PM


There  is  rampant  sexism   on  tv.

Men  are  pushed  around,  ridiculed  and   loathed  as  well  as   openly  discriminated  against  and  no  one   seems  to  think  it  is  wrong.     Don't   believe   me  ?    Look  at  any    commercial   and  you  will  see  a  woman  acting  smart  and  the  man   acting   like  a   really  dumb   person.      

I  call  this   Anti-Male   Bias.


This  is  evident    in   other  areas    as   well.    In  divorce  cases,   the  woman   always  gets  the  kids  and  the   man   has  to  pay  for  them   even  when  she  won't  allow  him   to  see  them.    A   woman   can   falsely  accuse  her  man   of   assault  and  cops  will  arrest   him   and   automatically  assume  he  is  guilty.

Women  who  assault  men    walk  away  with  a   wrist  slap.    Men  who  do  the  same  are  locked  up.    Violence   Against   Women  is  wrong  ?   Violence  against    ANYONE   is  wrong  !!!!!     Men  and  women  should  have   Equal   Rights    AND    Responsibilities.    At  all  times.     Not   just  when  it  suits  them.


There  are  a  lot  of  resources  available  for  Battered   Women.   All  1.7  million  of  them  (so  they say).  

What  about  Battered   Men  ?

Some  men  do  get  battered  by  their  wives  or  girlfriends.  These  men  have  no  one  to  turn  to.   The  cops and  prosecutors   will  not  help  them.    There  are  no  shelters  for  Battered  Men.    The  world  doesn't  believe  they  exist.


Also,   there are  more  women  than  men  on  college campuses.  

Boys are  not  doing  well  psychologically (lots  of  anti  male bias   in  the  system  plus  lack  of  positive  MALE  role  models)   or   academically  so  that  could explain  it.


http://michnews.com/artman/publish/article_4596.shtml


http://seattlepi.nwsource.com/jamieson/177711_robert14.html


http://www.glennsacks.com/mysterious_decline_where.htm


These  are  matters  concerning  every  man  or  boy  and  matters   that  should  concern  any  woman  who cares  about  a  male  sibling,  partner  or  child.  

what  are we  going  to  about  it  ?
19  Theology / Debate / Re:sin and repentance on: September 01, 2004, 09:01:58 AM
This world  is  going  mad !
20  Theology / Debate / Re:Domestic Violence Against Men in America on: August 30, 2004, 03:56:23 PM
You're  welcome.   This  topic  brought  to  you  by  your  online, politically incorrect,  social activist  black  Christian  man.  peace.
21  Theology / Debate / Domestic Violence Against Men in America on: August 29, 2004, 04:02:40 PM
I am an activist and i have noticed something that scared the gotcha2 out of me. Cops think domestic violence is a gender issue and not a human issue.


My younger brother was in a relationship with a violent woman who hurt him and later had him arrested for something that he didn't do. I am astonished that something like this could happen.

That was before I learned certain things.


A lot of women will hurt their men. Men are programmed to restrain themselves when attacked by a female. Violent women will attack anyone and thanks to today's laws, suffer no consequences for it at all.

I find this unfair. As a man, I think laws should be fair and that both men and women deserve equal treatment before the law.

Cops assume that only the male can be the aggressor. They dont know that some violent women will abuse their men and sometimes their children. Not all women are victims. That's a nasty stereotype. Some are dangerous predators. After what happened to my brother, I decided to fight for those the police simply wont help. Battered  Men.

 We all  know  of   Battered  Women.  The "innocent"  victims  of  an  abusive man.   What  about  Battered  Men ?  Many men have been  programmed  not  to  hurt  women.  They are told that it is wrong since  childhood.  Little  girls  grow  up  thinking  that  it is  okay  to  hit  boys and  that  boys wont  hit  back.
It  goes  on  until  they  are  adults.  Abusive  women  who  hurt  their  men  do  not fear   consequences  before  the law.  Cops  think  that  all  men are abusers  and all  women  are their  victims.  That's  the  Feminist  perspective.    The  truth  is  that abuse  swings  both ways.   Men  can  abuse women.  Most don't.  Out  of  principle.   Women  can  abuse  men and they  do.   They  have never  been  told  that  it  is  wrong to hit  a man  and  the  cops  and  prosecutors  will  always side
against  the  male  in  a domestic  violence  situation.




I find it pretty sad. Have you ever witnessed female on male domestic abuse ? What did you do ? I am new to this and your advice is welcome. It's a tricky double standard in our society and a lot of men are suffering because of it.

That's not fair.

Your thoughts are welcome.
22  Theology / General Theology / God of Mercy on: August 22, 2004, 11:35:34 PM


I think  that  a  fitting  title  for  the  Most  High  is  "God of  Mercy".

 I have seen  people  do  horrible  things.  A  man hurt a  woman. A woman  hurt a  man.   False accusations  get made.  Good men and some women  get  wrongfully  convicted.  Innocent men go to jail.  Young  women  are  fed  feminist  propaganda  and discouraged  from  seeking  happiness  in  relationships  with  men.


People  are  discriminated  against  based  on race, religion, nationality, orientation, Gender ( it  goes both  ways,  a  woman can get discriminated against and  a  man  can  get discriminated  against  as  well).   We  are  in a  society  where only the  most  ruthless  survive.  Relationships are failing.   Marriages  don't  last.  There  is so many  divorces  that  it  is  scary.   There  are  many men  and  women  out  there  with   hardened  hearts.  A  lot  of  suffering.  


I  pray  each  day  that  God  will  intervene.  I  see  some  men  and some  women  try to  help  their  fellow  human  beings  but  they  get  hurt  and  discouraged  in  this  cursed  world full of cynicism  and  hatred.  The  world  has gone  mad.   I  pray for a  miracle.  


  I  think  that  there  is  one  title  our  Lord  is  worthy  of  that  we  don't  give  Him.   He  is  the   God of  the  Heavens.
The  Most  High.  The  Almighty.  The  Father  of  All.  The  Creator.   All  those  are great  and  worthy  titles  but  one  that  He  is  most  worthy  of   is  God  of   Mercy.

 I  hope  He shows  Mercy  to  us  all.   We  are a   tragically  flawed  race.  There  are  very  few  good  men  and  good  women  left.  Their  numbers   are dwindling.   Agents  of evil (both  male and female)  are  very  popular in  our  culture  and  young  men and  especially  young  women  listen to them  and  fall  prey  to  their  evil  words.   Lucifer  would  feel  right  at  home  in   21st  century  America.


I  pray  for  Divine  Intervention...and  my  Hope  wanes.  I still try to maintain  it.  

It  is  not  easy.


I  just  wanted  to  share  this with  you.

peace.


23  Theology / Prophecy - Current Events / Re:The Angels have turned treacherous! on: August 22, 2004, 11:23:36 PM


The archangel  Michael  is  the  angel  par  excellence and the  warrior  of  God.   He  cannot  fall.  He  is  God's  champion.  All  others  may  fall but  not  him.  He  is  the  most  faithful  of all  celestial  luminaries  !!!!
24  Theology / Debate / Re:Issues for Men and Women worldwide on: August 12, 2004, 04:15:21 PM
You are  very  much  enlightened  and   informed.   Thank  you  for  sharing.  May  God  bless  you.  peace.
25  Theology / Debate / Issues for Men and Women worldwide on: August 11, 2004, 08:46:00 AM
As  a  young  black  Christian  guy  living  in  American  society, I have come to notice  many  things.  Some  of  them are truly  frightening.  So  scary  that  I  try  to  warn  people  about them  but  no one  listens.   This  is  the  hard  truth.  It  may chill, it may provoke.  I am  rather  certain  it  will  leave a mark.






I try to do what I call everyday activism.


There is a lot of injustice in this world. In America, the justice system is biased.....against Men.


All kinds of bad things happen to Men. A Woman can make a false accusation of rape against a man and lawyers and prosecutors automatically believe her. The Man is seen as
Guilty without evidence or proof needed. Man ? Bad. Woman ? Good. That's the way the system works in America. But is that the way it should ?


A man who was married to a woman for years learns from his wife that she wants a divorce. She is angry and bitter. If she wants to, she can make sure that he never sees the children again. She can say that he was physically abusive to her and the children. She can say that he is dangerous. The Cops and Prosecutors will automatically believe her. The Man is always seen as the Bad Guy and the Woman as his Helpless Victim.

This sucks !!!!!!!!!


A man working in corporate America is doing his job and some lady gets mad at him for no reason. She accuses him of Sexual Harassment. Automatically, the system thinks he is guilty. They never even acknowledge the fact that......He Might Be Innocent.


A woman physically assaults a man. She hurts him. He was raised as a Gentleman and doesnt want to hurt her. She will hurt him and then lie to the Cops and say that HE was the one who hurt HER. The police will believe Her over Him any day.


This is NOT fair !!!!!


Feminist Organizations depict all men as evil and that is NOT true.


There are countless SHELTERS for WOMEN who are VICTIMS of Domestic Violence done by MEN.

There are no SHELTERS for MEN who are VICTIMS of Domestic Violence done by WOMEN.

This also isn't fair.


Men and Women suffer and both should be able to rely on the System to help them.
Yet that's not the way it is.


Someone needs to do something about that. More Men need to Speak Up about this. Don't be afraid. Join forces with others who are in the same boat. YOU are NOT alone.
26  Fellowship / You name it!! / Re:The Crisis in Man-Woman Relationships on: August 05, 2004, 11:44:48 AM
I agree  one  hundred  percent  with  everything  that you have just  said.  I have seen some  impressionable  girls  join feminist groups  in my  college. They think of all men as  bad.  Oh, well.  Their  loss.  I am a  young  man  who  is  familiar with  loneliness and  hardship.   I am  not  too  proud  but  I am not  lying when  I say that I have been  struggling  a lot  more  than  most  people ever would.  

It makes me strong.  At  times  it  almost breaks me.  The one thing that hurts me  most  is the loneliness.  And  I am exceptionally strong  due to  what I endure.   If  a  young  feminist chooses  to  be  against  men,  let  her  enjoy being alone.   If   women  are  more sensitive than men,  as they claim to be, then  loneliness  should  hurt them  a lot  more. If
someone  is  foolish  enough  to  choose  loneliness  through foolish  political  affiliations,  I  dont  feel  fear of  them.  I feel  sorry  for  them.


I  feel  sorry for  any  young  lady  brainwashed by  feminism.  I shall seek  my  own  happiness.  I  shall make  peace  with  God. Any  woman  who  wars  against  her feminine  nature  to  please  some  foolish  feminist  movement  that  turned  into  Misandrists  United  decades  ago  should  be  pitied...and  looked after  because  she  can   harm  others.

 I  feel  sorry  for  feminists.   Choosing  loneliness ?  ha !!

 
27  Theology / Debate / Re:Domestic Violence in the Home on: June 29, 2004, 10:00:05 PM
I  reside  in  Brockton,  Massachusetts.   In  the  West.  
28  Theology / Debate / Domestic Violence in the Home on: June 26, 2004, 10:17:12 PM

Hi, guys.


I come  here  because  I  am  gripped  with  despair.


 I am  living  in  a  house with my  uncle  Louis, his wife  Gabrielle and their  children,   Shelby and  Kiki.   Also  residing  there  is  my sister  Annie.   Annie  has  always  had  a temper and lately she's  gotten  worse.    She  has  shown  signs  of  being  violent and i  recalled that once,  she  tried  to  stab  me  with a  knife but  i was  able to  stop  her.  Since  then,  i have not  trusted her  at  all  and  I  wont  turn  my  back  on  her.

I told my parents   what kind of  person  she is.  they know she is  out  of  control  and  steps  will be taken  to  deal with her.

I thought  Annie was  the  only potentially dangerous person in my house........wrong  !!!!!!!!


My  aunt  Gabrielle  has  been  acting  strange  lately. she yells at  everybody.   I never  thought  much  of  it   until  someone  told  me  they  saw  her  hit  Shelby,  her  7-year old son.  i  had never  seen  Gabrielle  do  physical   violence.  I  dont  know  what to  think.   I  know  women  can  be  just  as  bad as  men  and  sometimes  worse  but  I did  not see  Gabrielle  coming.  she  was  always  the  person  i  came  to when  in  need  but  now  she  is  the   enemy.


 I  dont  like  people  who  hurt  others  physically.  I  dont care  if  it's  a   woman  hurting  a  man  or  a  man hurting  a woman.  It's  not  right.   I  know  how  evil  some females can be  and  some  males  too  but  i  never  pegged  my  aunt for being one  of  those  violent  animals  I  despise.


 What  am  I  supposed  to do  ?   I  dont  trust  her anymore.  I cant  trust  her.   I  dont trust my sister  either.   My cousins and  I  live with  violent  people.  my  uncle  Louis is  seldom there.  


What  am  I  supposed  to do  HuhHuhHuh
29  Theology / Debate / Re:death penalty right or wrong? on: June 19, 2004, 02:14:48 PM
wrong.   totally wrong.  absolutely  wrong.  
30  Fellowship / Just For Women / Re:Men and Women on: June 19, 2004, 08:09:49 AM
That  is  funny !!!!!!!!!!
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