I am a   7th day adventist  and  they  are  NOT  a  cult.  They are a  religion that is practiced in a  church,  just  like  catholicism.   They  serve  God  just like you,  my  friend.   They  are  not a  cult.  Cults  are  made to  elevate  the individual  man or woman in status and power over others.  Churches  worship  the  Lord  of  Hosts.   peace.

  I am 19 years old and  I  feel quite bored with this life.  I have traveled further than any of my  peers  back on the island of  Haiti.  I have  come from  Haiti to the USA  and settled  in Boston. I have  made  it  through  high school and  even survived freshman  year of  college.  I made new friends.  I embraced new ideas.    I  met  interesting  young ladies  and  good  people and for the most part a  good time was had by all.  I  had enlightening experiences.  I  volunteered my  time  to  help  people  stricken with  HIV.   I  helped  people  and saw men and women in  a whole new light.  I  developed  my  skills as  a writer and  I am  recently  published.   My  family is proud of me  and  I am  proud  of  them.  
 

My  father  Francois  is  in good  health and he and my mom Elsie  are still together after  20  years of marriage and 2 kids.
Their business is  doing ok.  My  diabetic  little sister Anne is in good health (thank  God !).  I  am  living in  Boston  with my aunt  Gabrielle,  her  husband  Louie and their kids  Cassie and Shelby.   They are  good  people.   I have found   good friends in  Karl  and  Evans.   I  go to  a  decent  house of worship  (7th day adventist).

 This  is my life and  I  have a  lot  to  be thankful  for.

  But  sometimes  I  begin  to despair........over  finding a  love of my own.   A  woman  who  will  love  me  for  who I am and accept me  and  in  return  i will  love her and be with her and  make our lives great  and  never  stray  from  the  good path if  I can  help  it.   I  sometimes  dream of  raising children and being  happy.   Sometimes  I feel  envy  for married men and women  i see with  their  children.   But when I see the bitterness  of  divorce  ripping  through  people's  lives,  I feel fear and wonder  if  there  is  still  love in  the  world.

  I  just  want  someone  for  ME.   A  love  of my own.  
That is my  fondest  desire  and  I have  never  had  it.  I dont  
know why.  I am tall and black and a  good-looking  fella.  I have dated  girls.   My life is  okay.

 So  why can't  my  fondest  desire come true ?  Why can't  I find a love of  my  own  ?  So  much  treachery and deceit out there,  I  sometimes  feel  fear  of  my  fellow  human beings.

 Ever  feel   like   I  do  ?

The  death  penalty is  wrong.  Many  innocent  men get executed  all the time.  Evidence can be  fabricated  or tempered with.  Witnesses  may lie.  False accusations can and do  happen.
Those  things  can  be fixed  if  and when brave  men step  into the light of  day  and  speak  the  truth.......but  none of that matters  if  the  innocent  man  is  already  six  feet  under.   So, yes.  the death  penalty  is  wrong.   peace.

I  don't  believe in  dominance  or  submission in a loving relationship. I believe in partnership and cooperation.  That's the way it works.   Equality for all.  It's the  American way.

Hi, guys.

I was  just  curious about your  thoughts  on  this case. Personally, I think he has been falsely accused. I have seen a similar case in my county.    What are  your  thoughts ?

Tibby  and  Shylynne.........I think  you should  go  out together (lol).

Hi there.


There is something that bothers the heck out of me. I see a lot about violence against women and I dont condone it. But I hardly ever see any info on violent women. I know they exist because I have experienced it firsthand. Women who do everything from throwing shoes in anger to attacking people with knives to all kinds of horrible things.

The things I am finding out scare  me.

My friend was just telling me about a violent woman who burned a man with hot oil in a fit of anger. That is outright terrifying. To do something that horrible to another human being is almost unthinkable for me. I have had my own sister come at me with a knife ready to kill me. She also tried to hit my little cousin with a Taser last night. I would like some information on detecting and dealing with violent women. I dont plan on being no one's victim.


Is there a pathology to them ?


This is a sad world, my friends. I am not safe anywhere. Men aren't safe around women. women aren't safe around men. There is this epidemic of violence and evil everywhere I look, even in my own house. I suddenly desire to live far from anywhere, far from the evil men and evil women of the planet Earth.


What am I going to do ??

Ladies, you're gonna love this one.


Cellulite related.

http://www.healthcentral.com/drdean...type=DeanTopics

Hmm.

Male  bashing.....ugh.