It sounds like your husband has been burned by religion. Whatever the case may be I am praying for him. You do well to stay with him. If he is willing to stay with you and is not abusing you, by all means stay with him. Do not stress over his foul language but let it be filtered out by your love for him. Love conquers all!
asaph
2Co 10:3 For though we walk in the flesh, we do not war after the flesh:
2Co 10:4 (For the weapons of our warfare are not carnal, but mighty through God to the pulling down of strongholds;)
2Co 10:5 Casting down imaginations, and every high thing that exalteth itself against the knowledge of God, and bringing into captivity every thought to the obedience of Christ;
Hi TalkerCat,
I agree with the above post, just release him into Gods hands, make sure that you have your full spiritual armour on. I have had the same problems to some degree. I have done spiritual battle for him and God is changing him. Your husband is sanctified by you. Keep praying for him and you will see a change. Do not lose hope.
Battle Maiden