Where should we as Christians draw the line between legalism and licence? I know sometimes we're so uptight over every little nit-picky thing ...it's almost like we're uptight and afraid that if we accidentally step one inch off center God is going to club us over the head. We're constantly worried about the opinions and standards of those around us rather than discerning the real and acceptable standards of God. I think legalism can be just as damaging as licence because it puts people in a little box and keeps them from spreading their wings and becoming everything they can be in Christ. Christians aren't perfect and they aren't always going to conduct themselves in a perfect manner. Christians get tired, and grumpy, and depressed, and that's ok because they are HUMAN. We need to leave a little wiggle room for others and ourselves or how on earth are we ever going to enjoy this life while being the imperfect people that we are?
Pastor Roger gave you some good answers.
Also, I think as long as we are
trying to walk in the Spirit, that is the important thing. If we should like you say get tired, grumpy and depressed, I believe God realizes our human condition and still loves us....as we are accepted in Christ (imputed righteousness). We just shouldn't make these things a natural or
regular way of life. Also, in the case of depression, this can sometimes be a medical condition.
The most important thing is to love one another (and ourselves as accepted in Christ).
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