Thanks BEP. I see what you are saying and I agree. For me, I fell in love with the idea of grace and it became my own belief - one I hold dear (I never knew what grace was before

). In consenquence, I am less willing to be wrong, "Well...uh...well...um...(eh-hem), this is what I believe, so there!

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I think as time goes on, we become attached to what we believe. Through many victories our faith in our doctrine is solidified until one comes along and blows our faith out of the water - who saw that coming? Therefore, we must at all times before embracing a doctrine or new, be objective and not lean to what we fancey or feel for that matter - even our heart.
Jeremiah 17
9 The heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately wicked: who can know it?
7 Be not wise in thine own eyes: fear the LORD, and depart from evil. - Proverbs 3:7
And if the doctrine is embraced, give graceful attention even if, "OH-its sooo obvious!!!" I'm not saying to open your mind completly, there should be a healthy amount of skepticism, but be ready, the Bible is clear, but you may be reading it wrong (2 Timothy 2:15).
agur