WELCOME ANYAH! Your life sounds a bit like mine, except that I'm the one disabled and my husband helps care for my needs. I hope you enjoy your visit here and come back often - this is a great bunch of christians! We have a lot of fun and we also support, love and pray for each other. So far, I haven't seen any of the forums "get out of hand". If anything, you will make friends!
Blessings -