Felix
The opposite of edification is the A.C.L.U. (anti Christian lawyer’s union)

Well, Let’s define edify:
Thayer’s lexicon says:
Edify- oikodomeo, also oikodomos (Acts 4:11)-
1) to build a house, to erect a building:
a) to build (up from the foundation)
b) to restore by building, to rebuild, to repair
2) metaphorically:
a) to found, to establish
b) to promote growth in Christian wisdom, affection, grace, virtue, holiness, or blessedness
c) to grow in wisdom and piety[/u]
I think the two definitions I’ve underlined are what we mean as Christians. When I think of what represents the opposite to me, I come up with..foolish talking, unseemly entertainments (most that’s out there), theological knit picking, any distractions, chosen or unavoidable, that grieve the Spirit or quench the Life in me or others.
1 Tim 1:4
Neither give heed to fables and endless genealogies, which minister questions, rather than godly edifying which is in faith: so do. (KJV)Rom 15:1-2
1. We then that are strong ought to bear the infirmities of the weak, and not to please ourselves.
2. Let every one of us please his neighbour for his good to edification.
(KJV)2 Cor 13:10
therefore I write these things being absent, lest being present I should use sharpness, according to the power which the Lord hath given me to edification, and not to destruction. (KJV)If you vented hard on the brother, then you need to apologize and make peace. On the other hand a brother with any growth at all may have been edified by your admonishment.
Col 3:16
Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly in all wisdom; teaching and admonishing one another in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing with grace in your hearts to the Lord. (KJV)Did you sing to the brother?

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