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« on: December 15, 2004, 10:23:48 PM »


Do you think it's a good idea?



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« Reply #1 on: December 16, 2004, 02:40:46 AM »

no ,I think we should love them like CHRIST loved the church .
But if they lose repect for a man .Your done ?I once told a friend of mine .Brother she has no repect for you .he said ya she loves me .she took some of his old clothe to a place .took off with a bum .make a long story short ,my friend got on drugs and died a young man .They need to know there husband loves them ,and protects them ,and will teach them right in the LORd But they have it put in there heart to follow the man .they deep down desire this .They want to please there husband
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« Reply #2 on: December 16, 2004, 04:19:03 AM »

GRRRREAT Idea, I will try it next week. Grin


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« Reply #3 on: December 16, 2004, 10:17:22 AM »

Only is shes better at playing thumb wars than the man. Otherwise no, love her and respect her, but don't let her wear the trousers hehe
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« Reply #4 on: December 17, 2004, 12:10:28 AM »


"If they lose respect for you, you're done."


Hmmmmmmm.  


(Maybe it would just be better not to ever be 'respectable' in the first place??  That way at least you can't sink any lower.   Grin)

There's something amiss 'bout 'trying' to be respectable.

I don't think women want someone who's 'respectable' anyway.  I think they just want someone who'll bring home the bacon.  That's understandable, but generally I think that's what they want.

But most people equate 'being respectable' with 'bringing home the bacon'.  

Lotz of people bring home the bacon, but does that make them 'respectable'??
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« Reply #5 on: December 17, 2004, 01:35:59 AM »

I can tell you the burderns been put on the man ,HE must lead HIS family spiritually and guide and protect them .Even with HIS life .WE will be judged the harder and she has no choice but to follow us .if we lead right ?She will do right .If we lead wrong .We can only blame ourselfs .when she goes wrong .
If the marriage fail ?blame yourself .GOD WORKS THIOUGH THE MAN .unless there is no man .Then the woman
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« Reply #6 on: December 17, 2004, 09:50:45 PM »


Yes, that's very well said, Gary Cook.  thank you.   Smiley
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« Reply #7 on: December 18, 2004, 02:14:01 AM »

Bless you for your kind words .
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« Reply #8 on: December 23, 2004, 08:54:38 PM »


"If they lose respect for you, you're done."


Hmmmmmmm.  


(Maybe it would just be better not to ever be 'respectable' in the first place??  That way at least you can't sink any lower.   Grin)

There's something amiss 'bout 'trying' to be respectable.

I don't think women want someone who's 'respectable' anyway.  I think they just want someone who'll bring home the bacon.  That's understandable, but generally I think that's what they want.

But most people equate 'being respectable' with 'bringing home the bacon'.  

Lotz of people bring home the bacon, but does that make them 'respectable'??


I think you just about got women all figured out symphony  Wink

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« Reply #9 on: December 24, 2004, 05:06:52 PM »

Hmmmm.  Maybe.  Undecided

But, I think, even if I did, that would be very, very dangerous.

B/c, then it would go to my head.

Then that would be my great downfall.  (not that can fall that much farther.   Grin).

And secondly, I don't think women can ever be "figured out", anyway.

In fact, I think that's a misaligned presumption, that phrase, b/c it implies things about a woman that are God-created(i.e, that is, that she was taken from Adam's rib, and is simply just made that way).  And I don't  think it's a man's obligation, or prerogative, or even "challenge", to "figure a woman out".

A man has to be a man regardless of what the woman is; and that's what a woman wants in a man.

She doesn't even care if he brings home the bacon; she needs him to just be a man(although, by definition, "being a man" implies, among other things, bringing home the bacon).

A woman will be willing to die for a man, if he's a man.

But likewise, a man needs to be willing to die with that same purpose, though it's not so much directed at the woman, as much as it is to something else - or Someone Else.

...who gives us his Holy Spirit, to understand these things.
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« Reply #10 on: December 26, 2004, 05:38:58 PM »

sometimes you actually make sense which I find to be very confusing Grin
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« Reply #11 on: December 26, 2004, 09:10:14 PM »

        Well Symphony is confusing to everybody, even hinself.
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« Reply #12 on: January 03, 2005, 09:16:18 PM »

 I`m only confused when men arnt confused, because then I have to figure out how they got  unconfused, and somehow find a way to  send them back to confusion, its all quite confusing unless you are used to confusion, luckily I thrive on it!  Grin
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