I'm not disputing the fact that we do need forgive. We do! But if our forgiving determines whether or not we will in turn be forgiven, that takes salvation out of God's hands and puts it in our own. And we cannot save ourselves. See, forgiveness of sins is through Christ Jesus:
"Therefore, my brothers, I want you to know that through Jesus the forgiveness of sins is proclaimed to you. "
-Acts 13:38
"All the prophets testify about him that everyone who believes in him receives forgiveness of sins through his name."
-Acts 10:43
"In him we have redemption through his blood, the forgiveness of sins, in accordance with the riches of God's grace."
-Ephesians 1:7
"In fact, the law requires that nearly everything be cleansed with blood, and without the shedding of blood there is no forgiveness."
-Hebrews 9:22
You see, the forgiveness of our sins is only through the shedding of Christ's blood, and our acceptance of him as our personal savior. The forgiveness of our sins is salvation. If God does not forgive us unless we forgive others, then salvation is up to us and our deeds. And salvation is only through Jesus Christ and people are only called to Christ Jesus by God. But yes, YES, it is very important that we forgive others, me absolutely must as Christ forgave us! It doesnt determine whether or not we are forgiven, but we forgive BECAUSE we have BEEN forgiven.
