I'm sorry 'bout your situation, Hurting. I imagine it can be pretty bad.
Yes, DW is right. We as Christians are susceptible to the same temptations to anger or revenge, etc., that everyone else is.
Sometimes I think others about us, who tempt us to 're-act', are put there for a reason:
'Whether for correction, or for his land, or for love, he causes it to happen.' (Job 37:13)
Sometimes I think that the conflict about me, that I have with others, is there to find out what is in me(sometimes I can be the very cause of the conflict I see in others!).
We as human beings have to learn who we are not. Circumstances are sometimes put here to examine what I really think, and where I really put my faith.
Those who are inherrantly evil, will pass away. The question is, Who do I serve? Who do I say that the Lord Jesus is? Is He Lord?