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BlackmanX
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Chance Encounter with a Girl
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Ok.
I need some " MAN" advice. Yeah, I'm a guy. A 6'1, black guy in Boston. 19 years old. College undergrad.
I met this girl named Wendy a couple of weeks ago. She is tall and cute and all. She is always friendly to me. I thought she was just being friendly. Today, I think she might like me. She walked with me to class and seemed real reluctant to let me go. Also, we went to the library and she told me that I had lost my Disk. I did !!! I didnt even notice. She told me she found it and gave it to the librarian so I could have it. Talk about helpful !!!
We went to the computers and she made me take a Love Compatibility quiz online. Our horoscopes and names. It seemed we were a 88 percent match. She was so happy !!! Again, she was real reluctant to let me go and I ended up being almost late to class. She asked me where I was gonna be tomorrow and I said I'd see her tomorrow and she seemed reluctant to part with me.
She's funny and kind of cute and I am single and....celibate. Very celibate. Too celibate. After my last fiasco with a female, I wanted time to heal my heart and
meet a decent woman the next time. I just recently emerged from a period of confusion over my true self (psychologically, spiritually, sexually) I have made my peace with myself.
Still, it's women that I find myself drawn to emotionally and physically...most of the time...so I desire a good woman to be by my side.
Does this girl like me ? What do you think ?
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Marv
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Hi,
Look, all the information anyone here has on Wendy is what you just provided, does she like you....well, it sounds like it based on what you say. Should she, from what you say, I would say no.
You say you are too celibate, what in the world is that? Sex is exclusively for marriage. See that period at the end of the sentence, it is the end of the story.
If you ever expect to have the relationship you really want with this girl, you better work on yourself. Quit taking shortcuts.
Have you given your life to Jesus?
What does that mean to you?
Why, if you have, does it sound as though your hope for you and this girl is decidely non-Christian. Sounds like you have already been sexual with at least one other woman. Have you been checked for sexually transmitted diseases? Don't assume anything.
You want steak, and you expect her to settle for dogfood.
Now go, and sin no more.
Marv
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Another thing you need to look at in terms of your professing to be a Christian is this... Why would you let this girl get you to take a love compatibility test that involves horroscopes? Horroscopes are totally a no go. Is this girl a Christian? If not, you must remember that God says to be equally yoked with (together with) someone who also believes in God. Also, like Marv said, it sounds as if you are ready to get involved sexually with this girl. Sex is only for marriage. No ifs ands or buts about it.
I suggest you read your Bible and get on your knees and pray over this until you get a clear answer from God on how to proceed or if even you should proceed. I'm not trying to speak for the Lord, but from the sounds of it, this relationship is only going to go one way, and it isn't the way you want to go if you truly want a relationship with God.
In His service,
Robert
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Gotta agree with Marv and Robert. Your motivation sounds way out of whack. We must never forget that all our actions carry accountability to God and God has definite parameters for a premarital relationship. Those parameters do not involve sex and horoscopes. Watch your step.
Mac
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Yes, it sounds like she likes you.
Of course that might be a bias cause you are giving us limited information.
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Hopefully someday, things will get better for men, women and children everywhere.
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Blackmanx,
Let Jesus work on your loneliness. It appears that you were longingly looking at her than she did! It is natural and common at this age. My suggestion would be that you brush this off and move on with other things.
As rightly pointed out try answering the questions Marv has put forth.
When you have accepted Jesus Christ, the Holy Spirit will dwell in you and will lead and guide you in any situation of life.
And you will not always look for an easy way out.
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A word from the Wise. Stay away from horoscopes, no matter how cute she is!
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