Gracey, only you yourself know your motives. That's why i said the true spiritual journey is a diificult one because it means we have to always look at the plank in our own eye.
Okay, I see....I took this wrongly, I think. I also have learned that we must examine our own hearts always.
But how many of us love others who hate us? We cannot WILL ourselves to love others. "Love must be sincere."
I don't personally know anyone who hates me; nor do I hate anyone myself, so this is a tough one for me. But yes, love must be sincere. We may not be able to will ourselves to love, that's true, but we must make the decision to ask God to help us love those we may consider our enemies. It's definitely not something we can do ourselves.
It has nothing to do with ME, and how good, loving, holy, kind, etc. I AM, but how loving, good, kind, etc. God is!!!
Perhaps I gave you the wrong idea with my post.....I wasn't indicating that it was in "my own self" that I could be loving and kind, but through Jesus.
I do believe we may be coming closer to an understanding!

Why do you get defensive when your children are attacked, Blain? They are separate people from you, not an extension of yourself! They are responsible for their own actions. Jesus is the ONLY one who doesn't deserve to be attacked! He is the only innocent man whoever lived.
This wasn't addressed to me, but I can probably give you a bit of insight (not to Blaine, but to why people in general may feel this way). Children, when they are small, are defenseless. As parents it is our job to bring them up in the way of the Lord and protect them, nuture them and love them until they are able to stand on their own. And they are extensions of us, to some extent because they are our flesh and blood, but mostly, adults have a tendency to feel this way about any defenseless child - whether the child is our own, or someone elses. We love them. We don't wish to see them hurt. Mostly, it's a human emotion. But God loves, protects and cares for His children, doesn't He?
No, Jesus doesn't deserve to be attacked, but to be frank, we shouldn't be "attacking" anybody. Jesus may have been the only "pure" person to live, but that doesn't mean He's the only one who shouldn't be attacked. Actually, this might have more to do with "wordage" than actual meaning, so forgive me if I took it wrong (especially since you were addressing someone else and I just happened to jump in).
Worshiping simply means whoever you go to for the truth.
for clarity, the dictionary definition of Worship:
-A feeling of profound love and admiration
-Love unquestioningly and uncritically or to excess; venerate
-Show devotion to a deity
-Attend religious services
-Worship (adoration) given to God alone
Gracey