Actually "fear", as it is translated in most versions I believe, is the most accurate rendering of the word. Yes it means a reverent awe. But it also means
fear. We baulk at this because of the verse Everyday Newborn posted. How can we do both? Or neither?
It's interesting that the man God brought up to Satan as the example of what a godly man should be, was Job. And what was he known for? He was blameless and upright, a man who feared God and turned from evil. And it's
there, I believe, that we come to understand what godly fear truly is.
"There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect in love."
1 Jhn 4:18
Ungodly fear is fear that doesn't recognize the love of God, nor does it rest in that love. Forgive me those of you who believe eternal security to be false, but this is what is being discussed. If you fear judgment for your sin, if you fear losing that salvation, then you are not made perfect, or perfected, or
completed in love. Godly fear doesn't deal with judgment, not even so much discipline. Godly fear deals with a true understanding of the God we serve, and what cost there is in disobeying that God. It deals with understanding that in obedience, there are far greater blessings, than in disobedience. It deals with the fear of displeasing, and disobeying a loving Father.
I heard it best relayed by a lady at my church who related this fear as such: "I was
afraid of my dad! I wouldn't disobey him because of that fear. But I never doubted his love, or care for me. I wanted to please him." And so it is with our Heavenly Father. We don't want discipline! We fear it! But we do not fear a judgment Christ already paid for. We do not live in fear of failing an angry God. We live fearful of disobeying a loving Father.
Just a thought...