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Liana
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« on: March 17, 2004, 11:18:32 PM »

I think I may be pregnant, but I’m under 18. I can’t tell my parents, because my mother will murder me- no exaggerating, no jokes. I know she will, she’s tried it before.
I really don’t know what to do. The only help that I can get now is from God, to pray to him that I am not pregnant.
Please help. I'm so scared; I really don’t know what I’ll do if I am pregnant.
Thank you so very much,
~Liana
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« Reply #1 on: March 17, 2004, 11:31:34 PM »

Find a christian lady to tell ... the pastors wife... an Aunt.... older sister.

Girl stop having sex.  Sex belongs in marriage.
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« Reply #2 on: March 18, 2004, 12:31:32 AM »

Liana,
If you are pregnant - you are now responsible for another human being.  Guard that baby with your life.  Do what you have to do to keep your child.  

Reba speaks truth and wisdom.  

You and you child are in our prayers.  God loves you both equally.

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« Reply #3 on: March 18, 2004, 08:18:44 AM »

Hello Liana,

First things first. If you are in an abusive situation, if you are in danger, you need to go somewhere safe. If there is a pastor you know and trust, they may be able to help you find a place; Reba's idea is good. Is there a women's shelter in your area? A Salvation Army? A crisis line that might have a database of resources?

Once you're safe, you need to find out if you are pregnant or not; if you are not, then we work from there. If you are, then that's where we go from. Either way, there is help out there, there is support out there. And know that no matter what fix you may have gotten yourself into, you are loved, infinitely and beyond the capacity for human understanding. That may or may not seem real to you right now, but even if it is not, hang onto the thought.

My prayers are with you,

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« Reply #4 on: March 19, 2004, 04:11:28 PM »

Praying that you'll have God's peace, Liana. I'm sorry you've got to be a "grownup" so soon.  Cry Find somewhere safe; don't lose hope.
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« Reply #5 on: March 20, 2004, 07:47:56 PM »

Liana,

I will be praying for you. I think the others have already given you good advice.

Love In Christ,
Tom
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