Need Prayer, and alot of it!

[Mislead]

Hello I know that this is only for women, but I need for my fellow Christian women to pray for my wife
and I.  In 2005 our Lord and Savior shined his light upon me and my sins.  At that time I was not  living for the Lord
I was living a lie.  My sin was infidelity, now I live in fear because of my guilt and shame.  I am going to
counseling and have been for 9 months.  I have turned my live back over to the Lord, but I keep falling short.
           I go to my wife's work and spy on her,  out of fear that she will replace me with another.  I Love her
and I find it hard to give her space, to be able to recover from my mistakes.   Please pray for us, and our children
that the Lord will keep us in is Grace.  My hope and pray is that he will restore our trust in each other.  Pray that she
doesn't file for a divorce.  We need your all help and pray,  daily I die to self to live in Christ Jesus, I know through God
 all things can be healed and restored.   



                                                                                                    Sincerely
                                                                                             
                                                                                                         Mislead.

[Shammu]

I go to my wife's work and spy on her,  out of fear that she will replace me with another.  I Love her
and I find it hard to give her space, to be able to recover from my mistakes.   Please pray for us, and our children that the Lord will keep us in is Grace.  My hope and pray is that he will restore our trust in each other.  Pray that she  doesn't file for a divorce.  We need your all help and pray,  daily I die to self to live in Christ Jesus, I know through God  all things can be healed and restored.   



                                                                                                    Sincerely
                                                                                             
                                                                                                         Mislead.

First, I'd stop spying on your wife, at work.  Yes I'll be praying for you, and your family.

[Debp]

daily I die to self to live in Christ Jesus, I know through God
 all things can be healed and restored.   

Amen!!  I have read your other post as well.  You seem sincerely repentent....therefore, please accept the forgiveness and cleansing Christ gave you.  Please remember 1 John 1:9, "If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness."   This is a wonderful promise to us all. 

[littlenana]

When you come to repentance, the Lord remembers no more the sin you have committed.  It is the guilt and the consequence of the sin that lingers and has to be dealt with because it effects others.  Because of sin, the consequence is a matter of no trust and trust has to be established in our wife, your family. And in YOU.  You have to trust the Lord to change you and believe me, your family will see as you change by the Holy Spirit. And it is the Holy Spirit that will bear witness with their spirit for them to know you are genuine in your repentance and will see the change.  Keep reading the word and do as it says. Pray for your family and act on your prayers and most of all, let the love of God reign in your home for when it does, it radiates all that live there and blesses all who enter your home.  Remembe, now that you know the Lord, you are the head o the home and responsible for the spiritual well being of your family. It is the most important ministry. it would be good to establish home bible study that your family can ask questions and talk about how they feel and to look in the word for answers and for comfort.