AMEN sister, I am very happy to see you.
I know it may be a little tough to be and feel alone, but that does not prevent you from going out with a group of friends from church and maybe go bowling, or to dinner, or just do something fun, biking, or skating. Reading the Bible together can also be very uplifting, and the less time you are alone the less time you have to think about how lonely you feel. Sister, the best kind of romantic love and the most blessed is the one that the Lord chooses for you. He knows your needs, He knows your heart. He has someone very special for you. But I beleive that first you have to work on forgiveness. When we forgive someone we are benefiting ourself more so that the other person. God wants you to forgive, the New Testament alone contains 21 verses in regards to forgiveness. That is how important forgiveness is to God.
Mt 6:15 But if ye forgive not men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.
God wants to bless you, but you may be hindering your own prayers from being answered, and blessings to be poured out upon you.
Please don't take this the wrong way, I am not speaking of my own but I am telling you what the Word of God says.
I am glad to see that you are better than when you first joined CU

I will continue to pray for you my sister.
In Christ,
Maria.