God love you dear one He love you so much that He died for you and He wants the best you.  He cares for your soul and your feelings go to him in prayer and seek his face for your pain and give that pain to Jesus the one who made you.  He new you was going to have this problem and He does not make and thing that is not good.  Yes we are sinners an our actions and our sin does align up with his perfection but he cares about your feelings so go to him and trust God for your life and he will give the desires of your heart.

Hi I would like to join in on this  postings.  My husband has had an addiction to porn  all most all of our married life he has been in and out of it for the past 20 years.  for 18 years of it I did not know anything about it.  I have read a lot of information about this addiction.  This is nothing about the wife it has all to do with the man or the person who has the addiction.  When one has an addiction it does effect a lot of different people (family wife children etc).  RU is a great program for all types of addictions.  I have been going to a local chapter for year and half.  It has help me over and over.  My husband is now in in house treatment program with another group.  That is where he choose to go.  Like Pastor Rogers has said RU is great. Reformer Unanimous is Biblical based and you learn a lot of scripture and lot of Christian principles.  Just go on line and you can fine a chapter close to where you are and if you can't they have it every Friday night on line.  Christian counseling is very hard to find and you need someone who has knowledge with porn addiction because it is an addiction that needs specialize knowledge in it.  You have to realized this has nothing to do with you and you can not fix it.  God has to get a whole of your husband heart and your husband has to see this as it is.  He is probably in denial and does not want to recognize it as what it is.  Porn or a sexual addiction does not get better without some type of intervention.  It needs to come from a Godly man who can tell you dear Husband that he needs help.  One thing that I can do he pray for you and your husband.  I hope I have not cross the lines here I am new to this and if you want more information you can look up my email and I will be happy to help you find some help if I can.

Hi I thought I would post I just found this  and I thought it was group was kind of interesting.  I am a born again wash by the blood believer.  I was saved when I was 13 years old at a summer camp.  I am married and have two adult children.  One is at Bible college and the other one graduated from Bible college in 2006 and now working on a degree in web design and movie production.  I thank God for the grace He has given to me and my family.  I am also going to College and working on Web design, eCommerce, and graphic art degree.  I did not tell you that I am in my fifties and going to college it has been a lot of fun and I have learn a lot.  I will close for now.  Your Sister in Christ Hope