My husband and I have been married almost 9 years, but he wants a divorce.  I don't.  He's leaving for Iraq in 3 months and wants it to be final before he leaves.  He was my best friend, but now he won't even talk to me.  He has another woman in his life and wants me to move on.  I can't even get through a day without tears, let alone move on.  Please help me, if I can't find the right words, maybe someone else can help me.  We swore to God that we would make this marriage work, and I'm still fighting for it.  God hear my prayers, please help us.

I'm new to this site, and looking for some support.  I am in my late 40's and finding myself single again.  I know I will get through it, but I'm not sure I want to.