ok I have a question...I have always believed that men are the stronger sex and should have the final say..but thats the problem for me...I don't want to feel like I'm a slave and can't do anything I want...

for example...my mom has been wanting to go to her high school renunions for years now..and she can't go unless my dad goes with her..but he won't so she doesn't get to go and she said if she did it would cause problems between them because he believes she will hook up with one of her old boyfriends

so is it right for the man to say you can't do something that you really want to do..but then its ok for him to do something that he wants to do even if you don't want him to do it?

The problem for me is if I have my heart set on doing something i have always done it...so now are you saying that I have to do whatever the guy I marry says with no questions asked?....because if thats the case...and I have no say in it..then that marriage won't last very long at all!....I'm a very strong-willed person and I don't let people boss me around!...so am I wrong about this or not?