I Timothy Chapter 3 This is a true saying, If a man desire the office of a bishop (an overseer) he desireth a good (excellent) work. 2. A bishop then must be blameless, the husband of one wife, vigilant, sober, of good behaviour, given to hospitality, apt to teach. 3. Not given (prone) to wine, no striker (scrapper), not greedy of filthy lucre; but patient, not a brawler, not covetous; 4. One that ruleth (manages) well his own house, having his children in subjection (under control) with all gravity; 5. For if a man know not how to rule his own house (family), how shall he take care of the church of God?
This chapter of I Timothy came to mind when I read your post.