Hey im not mad or anything

Thank you for your opinion and advices.. Yes i am trying to witness to him, and reading to him everyday and praying with him more often.. And when he's ready go to church with him also.. I am trying not to jump start on everything too quick, as to not over whelm him with christianity, but hopefully things do go smooth for our relationship.  Please keep us in your prayers, that the Mighty Lord will strengthen us...   Thank you so much..

I am so happy to hear Godly advices.. and hopefully people who are blessing other people wth advices be more blessed....

"We are blessed to be a blessing to others"

Well, I was gonna bypass this one because my opinion might not be too popular, but it just kept scratchin' at me.

I believe there's a REASON you are having that "feeling". Same reason I had that scratchin' in me. You need to listen to that "feeling". You don't HAVE to spy on him because you already know.

Now here's the part that you might not like. You really should move on from him. Or at least, maintain purely a platonic friendship. Because if you go deeper into this relationship, and that porno problem has not been resolved, guess what he's gonna demand in the bedroom after the marriage? And guess what happens to the marriage when you demand to maintain pure sexual relations?

Frankly, I think this has disaster written all over it. You need to know beyond a shadow of a doubt about him before engaging in a relationship. So while you're praying for him, spend extra time on you with the Lord to receive direction from Him on this matter.

I apologize if this is too blunt or heavy handed sounding, but I'm afraid I don't know any other way. I guess tact is not one of my strong points.


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Yes that was a bit harsh for me, i really love this guy and that is why i am willing to help him with his trials.. as i know for a fact that he has changed me to a better person also.. Thank you for your opinion though and I WILL GUARD MY HEART UNTIL I GET MARRIED.... and as for my reply to if i havent recieved Jesus yet.. I am already saved my dears, And saved to share..... blessed to be a blessing. that is  why i want to make a deifference in that mans life.. I just needed some spiritual support from fellow christians out there like you guys...........

Wait a minute!! IM NOT LIVING WITH HIM.. He is just my boyfriend and we dont live together.. just talking about getting maried.. just wanted to correct that.....

Thank you so much.. I do pray for him a lot, as i think he is the person i will be married to one day. I had one more question though, can you guys (whoever is reading this) please include me and him in your prayers.. Thank you so much..

I also have one more question.. I have changed my means of entertainment like music, television, movies, and choose to watch and listen to christian music and plainly wholesome stuff, as to continually cleanse my mind from the bad influences of media.. thing is, i want to get him into doing the same  thing as me to help him change his impure thoughts.. but i have no idea how to encourage him to be more sensitive abou this issue..  What do you guys think?

This prayer request is for my father who is discouraged to go to church.. Please pray for him  that he softens his heart and opens his heart to the LOrd again.. Thank you so much

Im new here.. But just wanted to see your guys' opinions..  I have a partner who used to (because he says he doesnt do it anymore) check porno sites. It's been months that we havent talked but now we're trying to work things out again.  I have this heavy feeling that he still does it and it bothers me so much. I have been reading him verses from the bible about lust, pornography, etc. and have been praying for him about that matter. WHenever i ask him if he still does it, of course he says no.  Should i trust him?  I always tell him that- to even just look at a women lustfully is like commiting adultery already.. But he doesnt really say anything about it.  Sometimes i want to spy on him just to find out if he still does it, but i know thats pretty lame..  I just dont know how to deal with this...