I know that not everyone should have children but I agree with one of the replies that if God wants you to have a child, you will, birth control or not.  My son was 33 when he married and wondered if he should have a family.  His wife had a beautiful little (2 1/2 lbs!) boy two years ago.  This past May she died of a heart attack due to undiagnosed heart disease. My son is so thankful (and so are we) that he has this little fella who is such a blessing to all of us.  Trust God with whatever He has planned for your life, babies or not.