I am 19 and I am friends with this girl who is 14.  I am really self concious about it when people at church see us talking or hanging out there.  We only hang out at church and if it is outside of church it is with her family.  We do like eachother so it could be something more but I am freaked out about it because I am 5 years older than she is.  Then I think I will be 26 when she is 21.  That doesn't sound bad does it?  Her parents would kill me if something were to happen, which is a good thing. HAHA.  Just the fact that she is a minor irks me about being her friend.  I hate stirring up problems but I think a lot of people at church think we are in a dating relationship.  That is a bad thing to me.  Any thoughts