marraige

[scared]

I hope I am ok doing this.I don't want to rain on anyones day. I just need some help. I guess someone to talk to about a serious problem.

[nChrist]

Hello Scared,

WELCOME!! I sincerely hope that you enjoy Christians Unite.

We have many sweet Christians here, and we'll do the best we can to help you. We can also pray for you.

Love In Christ,
Tom

Psalms 104:33-34 NASB  I will sing to the LORD as long as I live; I will sing praise to my God while I have my being.  Let my meditation be pleasing to Him; As for me, I shall be glad in the LORD.

[Amisk]

You named yourself "Scared" and then you entitled your problem as marriage. You give us very little else to go on. If we are to help we need to know why you are Scared of marriage?  

Remember God is there if you are prepared to act according to his will for your life. I'll say a prayer for you.

[Amisk]

I'm sorry Scared. I am new to this site and I had missed your earlier postings which would have explained what I asked you in my last post.

I will say a prayer for you. My heart goes out to you and your husband. I can well image it takes a lot of love to over come unfaithfulness, although neither my wife nor I have been sexually involved with other partners.

It is really up to you whether this marriage suceeds at this point. If you can forgive then you have a true heart. If your husband remains faithful your marriage has a chance for the future, otherwise it will not.

If you have children then I would suggest that you make a big effort to make this marriage work, however I realize that the future of this marriage depends on your husband.

If I understood at one point you were asking what makes a man be unfaithful. There are many reasons. Pornography is one of the biggest in our age. Another is wives who punish husbands by cutting out sex when ever there is a disagreement. These do not make unfaithfulness right, but they are a couple of reasons that men go astray.