Something thats been on my mind as of late. Ever thouht about this? Are we made to be broken so that God can rise to the surface? Think about it...
Moses
David
Peter
Paul
What did it take for these to be used the way that they were used by God? Kind of a scary thought when we ask God to use us for His purpose isn't it?
I think many times when we find ourselves in the midst of terrible trials, partly those are to break our will and humble us to the point that we fall flat on our face and are forced to allow God to use us according to HIS purpose. I am realizing this more and more in my walk, and I must admit its scary at times

This seems abundantly evident in scripture though.
2Co 12:10 Therefore I take pleasure in infirmities, in reproaches, in necessities, in persecutions, in distresses for Christ's sake:
for when I am weak, then am I strong. What say ye?
Grace and Peace!
This is an important thing to bring up bro. Thanks for bringing it up. God needs to break us so we can recognize our need for Him. It's not scary at all brother, God disciplines those He loves and the breaking is good for us. Otherwise, we fall away from God.
The reason we must be broken:
The only thing that God wants for us, is to completely rely on Him. Praise the Lord, we are weak...but because we are weak the power of Christ tabernacles over us. God loves us just as we are and desires us just to trust and love Him. God has everything planned out for us.
Everyone will go through life trying to do things on their own. Everyone will rely on their own abilities...but this is not what God wants. We should learn something from the gospel of salvation. It is done by the GRACE of God! We cannot attain our own salvation by good works. This is what grace is: when we cannot do something, someone else does it for us; when we are weak, another one stronger than us gives us strength; when we fail, another one more powerful than us makes us conquer.
This someone is Christ. And Christ is Grace!
While we are not "broken" we are completely concerned with 'self'. But in this state...sooner or later you will fail. And that is when you are broken. That is when you will see that you need God, you need the grace of God which is Jesus Christ.
2 Tim 2:1
You then, my son, be strong in the grace that is in Christ Jesus.