How to Fail.....

How to Fail.....by James Jackowski

What strange tales I would tell if I were a guest speaker at
graduation. To get at those minds still fresh from the
accomplishment of 12 years' education. What a great opportunity.

I would tell them something they never thought they would hear.
I would tell them how to fail.

You know, anyone can tell you how to succeed. There are
thousands of books on that subject. The blueprints and formulas are all there for anyone to follow. What is not found very often are the directions on how to fail. I would tell the graduates that success is never guaranteed, no matter how closely you follow the diagrams. Failure, however, is pretty much a certainty, and not just once, but probably several times in your life.

You will fail if you are inconsiderate of others. So many people think the world was created just for them, and they disregard the feelings of others. We must share the space on this planet with each other.

You will fail if you think anybody owes you anything because of your education. The only ones who are owed anything are those whose victories and defeats paved the way for all the opportunities available to you. Among those might be your great-grandparents who now live in a nursing home.

You will fail if you start your business life looking for a job that suits you. You must suit the job. Applying for any kind of work in a T-shirt and jeans will further enhance your chance for failure.

You will fail if you climb a corporate ladder by stepping on people. As the saying goes, "You will meet the same people on the way down."

You will fail if you do not try to right a wrong whenever possible.

You will fail if you see abuse and do not speak out against it.

You will fail if you see corruption and do not fight against it.

You will fail if you suffer bad politicians and do not bother to vote.

You will experience the biggest failure of all if you believe the
romantic notion that "Love means never having to say you're sorry."
For in truth, anyone who has lived long enough to retire will tell you that loves means just the opposite. It means being able to say "I'm sorry."