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« on: April 13, 2004, 09:03:01 AM »

Dont shoot the messenger ok

I just came across this link, it is excellent and so is this article...so just passing  it on...

How Easy is Sexual Sin?
Patrick M. Morley


During a typical week I personally learn through my work of three or four men who risk or throw away a lifetime of investment in a wife, family, and reputation for a few moments of sexual fantasy.

When we read about someone like Frank Gifford cheating on his wife it may or may not shock us. However, we have all been stunned by learning our minister or a close friend has committed sexual sin. When you hear such "close to home" news of sexual misconduct does it make you fearful that it could happen to you? Here are three things you need to know:

1. Your Sins Will Find You Out
I have devoted my life to mastering one book so that I can show men how it applies to their lives. I love teaching the word of God. Let me use my knowledge of that book to frighten you a bit. A little "holy" fear can be a good thing. If I have learned anything at all from the Bible it is this: Your sins will find you out.

You wouldn't dream of committing sexual sin if you thought you would get caught. You will. Listen to what the Scriptures say,

You may be sure that your sin will find you out (Numbers 32:23).
For God will bring every deed into judgment, including every hidden thing, whether it is good or evil (Ecclesiastes 12:14).

There is nothing concealed that will not be disclosed, or hidden that will not be made known (Luke 12:2).

Our sins will find us out sooner rather than later. Why? Because God will not be mocked. If you don't believe it, ask Frank Gifford.

Let me ask you a question. Do you think God's reputation is at stake when a Christian commits sexual sin? It's not. Actually, God's reputation would be at stake if He didn't punish such sin.

What do you do if you have a suit of clothes that gets stained? You send it to the cleaners. It would embarrass you not to get it cleaned. That's exactly what God does.

You and I are the suit of clothes God wears. Our bodies are the temple of the Holy Spirit (1 Corinthians 6:19). The same God who created 100 billion galaxies that stretch millions of light years deep into space is making us into His dwelling place. He is always with us and will never forsake us (Hebrew 13:5, Matthew 28:20). The point is: Not only will people come to know our sins, God already knows.

2. Is It Easy or Difficult To Fall Into Sexual Temptation?
It is very easy for a Christian to fall into sexual temptation. Through creation the eye has been made to appreciate beauty. Through the fall the flesh has been made to lust after that beauty.

Any man who says that he doesn't struggle with sexual temptation is lying. Augustine put it this way: "After the fall lust rules." (He would know. He had an illegitimate son by the first of his two mistresses).

We live in a sexsaturated society. Everyday we are bombarded by the availability of sexual explicit materials whether TV, movies, magazines, books, or the Internet. In today's newspaper the women's underwear ads are equivalent to "girlie" magazines of 25 years ago!

Clothing suggests a sensuality that was taboo not that long ago. The social penalties for sexual sin have all but disappeared whether lust, premarital sex, cohabitation, or homosexuality.

3. Is It Easy or Difficult To Fall Into Sexual Sin?
How likely is it that a man walking closely with Christ might stroll down a sidewalk, have a woman seduce him, and succumb? Not very.

It's not that easy for a Christian to fall into sexual sin. You have to flirt with sexual sin for a long time before you will fall. You've got to plot and plan it out. You've got to spend a lot of time figuring out how not to get caught. All of this takes an enormous amount of forethought and premeditation. This thought should provide a great deal of comfort to men who truly love Christ.

If you abide in Christ it's just not that easy to stumble into sexual sin. However, if you live on the edge in a secret thought life you are vulnerable. What kind of company do you keep? What kind of thoughts do you meditate upon? Do you have habits that bring you into contact with sexually tempting materials? How vulnerable have you made yourself?

Three Practical Ideas
1. Trample Your Temptations. Do you know the difference between men and women when it comes to temptation? Women flee temptation! Men slowly crawl away hoping temptation will overtake them.

1 Corinthians 6:18 says, "Flee from sexual immorality." If you don't want to sin, don't permit habits that bring you into temptation, like watching sexy TV, casual flirting, or spending time "online" with no accountability. Don't put yourself in compromising situations. Don't hire a secretary to whom you feel a physical attraction. Don't stare out the window at your neighbor's wife doing yard work.

2. Honor Your Wife. Here's a story borrowed from our new book, What Husbands Wish Their Wives Knew About Men (Zondervan, January 1998):

Mike loves God with all his heart. Yet, he made a regular practice of checking out beautiful women. One day he realized what he was doing was sinful against his wife. He made a commitment to stop looking and lusting.
"One day not much later," Mike said, "I was sitting in a restaurant just finishing my meal. Out of the corner of my eye I noticed a very sensual woman walk into the restaurant. I was determined that I was not going to look at her and lust.

"I didn't know what to do, so I prayed and asked God for help. As it happened, there were about three peas left on my plate. I decided to focus on those peas and began to stare real hard.

"I felt like my head was caught in a giant tug-of-war. One force pulled my jaw upward to look at this woman. The other force yanked my eyes back toward those three peas. It was a bare-knuckles brawl between old habit and new commitment. My face was half twisted toward her, but my eyes bulged out to stay glued on those peas.

"Finally, the battle began to subside. A few moments later it was over. I had won. God gave a spiritual victory. I still am tempted to lust, but God has given me the power to have victory every time I ask His help."

One day a few months later, Mike took his wife to lunch. As they waited for the check she said, "Mike, I've noticed you don't look at women anymore. I just wanted to tell you that I appreciate that. Thank you very much."

3. Cling To Christ. Emerge Ministries works with pastors who have fallen into sexual sin. Founder Richard Dobbins states that every single one of these pastors have one thing in common. In the days, weeks, and months leading up to their moral failure not one of these men had maintained a consistent time of daily devotions. In other words, their public ministry continued even though their personal walk with Christ had ground to a halt.

The ultimate protection from sexual sin is to live out of the overflow of a vibrant, personal relationship with Jesus. You are only vulnerable when you fail to abide in Christ.

-taken from Topics
Serving Pastors And Leaders Who Reach Men
http://www.maninthemirror.org/alm/alm.htm
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« Reply #1 on: April 13, 2004, 01:45:02 PM »

Amen to the article by Morely.  Grin But, wait ONE SECOND!  Did somebody MISS the "For Men Only" sign? Tongue
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« Reply #2 on: April 13, 2004, 02:20:15 PM »

your sign seen my sign and bowed
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« Reply #3 on: April 13, 2004, 03:28:21 PM »

Thanks for the article shylynne. I suppose God can be found in most anything, even peas.  Smiley
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« Reply #4 on: April 14, 2004, 08:56:40 AM »

your sign seen my sign and bowed

Signs actually see and bow toward one another?  Sounds rather formal?  Are they from the royal court of England?  I didn’t even realize signs could see one another.  I always thought they were designed to be SEEN and not to actually see!....LOL… Cheesy
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« Reply #5 on: April 16, 2004, 08:32:39 PM »

I have been formally secretly and silently  commissioned Her RCMP of CU, so If I say a sign bows, it does  Tongue




I suppose God can be found in most anything, even peas.  

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« Reply #6 on: April 17, 2004, 02:37:31 PM »

I have been formally secretly and silently  commissioned Her RCMP of CU, so If I say a sign bows, it does  Tongue





Hmmmmmmmm.... Tongue
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« Reply #7 on: April 23, 2004, 06:54:21 AM »

insubordinate boys!
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« Reply #8 on: April 23, 2004, 09:51:19 AM »

insubordinate boys!

“Insubordinate” may be an accurate overall assessment.  Although, upon additional thought, I believe an individual, no need to name names, is “rebellious” in defying the posted SIGNS, even if the signs are “bowing”.

By the way, Webster’s dictionary describes “Insubordinate” as, “Not submitting to authority; disobedient; rebellious; mutinous”.  I think when the “For Men Only” sign was posted they had a specific point in mind.  Hence, doing something contrary to this posted sign is, as Webster so nicely put it, “Not submitting to authority; disobedient; rebellious; [and YES even] mutinous”!!!
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« Reply #9 on: April 24, 2004, 07:27:58 AM »

Insubordinate” is an accurate overall assessment...and additional thoughts always get a man in trouble  Tongue

 

Tell this mutinous man I have RCMP privvy please peas  Cheesy
Blackeyedpeas dont make me bring my horse in here!  
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« Reply #10 on: April 25, 2004, 03:56:22 PM »

Amen to the article by Morely.  Grin But, wait ONE SECOND!  Did somebody MISS the "For Men Only" sign? Tongue

Oklahoma Howdy to Tony,

 Grin  The Royal Canadian Mounted Police go where they want, when they want, with or without a warrant. Didn't you know that you never mess with or question a Mounty? There isn't even a trial. The Mounty is the judge, jury, and executioner. The easiest punishment I've ever heard of is 6 months of stable clean-up duty. On a repeat or aggravated incident, you do the clean-up bare handed.

One never messes with a Mounty. If their horse gets hurt or tired, they ride grissly bears. I'm afraid it's too late for you.   Grin

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« Reply #11 on: April 25, 2004, 07:41:52 PM »

nyuck nyuck nyuck nyuck!  Grin

 
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OH MY!!!! - A Mounty without a horse is not a happy Mounty!

QUICK!! - Everyone Hide!!
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« Reply #13 on: April 26, 2004, 09:18:13 AM »

Amen to the article by Morely.  Grin But, wait ONE SECOND!  Did somebody MISS the "For Men Only" sign? Tongue

Oklahoma Howdy to Tony,

 Grin  The Royal Canadian Mounted Police go where they want, when they want, with or without a warrant. Didn't you know that you never mess with or question a Mounty? There isn't even a trial. The Mounty is the judge, jury, and executioner. The easiest punishment I've ever heard of is 6 months of stable clean-up duty. On a repeat or aggravated incident, you do the clean-up bare handed.

One never messes with a Mounty. If their horse gets hurt or tired, they ride grissly bears. I'm afraid it's too late for you.   Grin


Fortunately, I live in Ohio…. Where local politics and family connections dictate ones well being… Grin Grin Grin Grin
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« Reply #14 on: April 26, 2004, 09:55:23 AM »

The mascot was nyuck`n cause a women is finally being  allowed a place of honorary recognition in a  mans world LOL  Grin
 ...Or it might have been nyuck`n cause we lagged so far behind the rodents, since it was way back in 1975 when the beaver received  official written recognition by Royal assent.  Roll Eyes

So i`m really not sure if it`s nyuck`n at the women or the men... but henceforth all men who dont protest women`s presence here shall be dubbed DUDLEY DO RIGHTS  Cheesy

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