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Steps on the Stairs by J. R. Miller, 1902
Birthdays are good times for new beginnings. Birthdays are not different from other days in their external aspect. The sun rises no earlier, lingers no later, and shines no more brightly. The sky is no bluer, and the air is no purer. The birds sing no more sweetly, and the flowers are no lovelier. Tasks are no easier, burdens are no lighter, and paths are no smoother. Yet there is a sense in which a birthday is different from all other days. It is a milestone recording another station of progress in the life, and no thoughtful person can pass it without pausing a moment for a look backward - and then forward.
The event is brightened also by the tokens of love and friendship which it brings, for there are few in these good days whose hearts are not warmed by reminders of interest and affection from their friends on their birthdays. Thus the days are made to stand out among the days of the year with a brightness all their own.
It is not enough, however, to have a birthday made happy by the congratulations of friends, by tokens of affection, by letters filled with good wishes. It should be marked also among the days by some uplift, some new beginning, some victory over temptation or fault, some fresh gift from heaven. No tomorrow should be just like today - no better, no more beautiful, no fuller of helpfulness. But every birthday should mark a special advance. We should never be content to live any year - just as we lived the one that is gone. Contentment is a Christian grace - but contentment does not mean self-satisfaction. We are never to be restless - restlessness is a mark of weakness - but we can have perfect poise and the blessing of Christ's peace, and yet be eagerly pressing on all the while, to new attainments and new achievements.
We should mark our birthdays by a clearing away of whatever is out of date and no longer of use in our life, and especially of whatever cumbers or hinders us, whatever impedes our progress. As we grow older - there are many things which we should leave behind. When we become men - we should put away childish things - but some men never do. They always remain childish.
Childlikeness is very beautiful - it is commended by the Master as the very ideal of Christian life and character. But childishness is unbeautiful and unlovely, and should be left behind as we pass on.
Then, we are continually coming to the end of things which may have been important in their time - but we have outlived their necessity. A birthday is a good time to get clear of all these worn-out, superseded things. We should move out of the old house, leaving in the garrets and lumber-rooms, the things we need no more - and making a new home for our souls with only fit and beautiful things in it.
A birthday should be a time also for taking fresh hold of life. The tendency is to live in routine, and routine is likely to be fatal to zest and enthusiasm. We easily lose sight of our ideals - and drift imperceptibly into commonplace living. We need to be waked up now and then - to a fresh consciousness of the meaning of life.
One of the perils of comfortable living is the falling into easy ways. We forget that the easy path does not slope upward; that worthy things can be reached only by climbing; and that the true way is not only steep - but ofttimes craggy. The really noble and worthy things in life - can be attained only at the cost of toil and struggle. Not heaven alone - but whatever belongs to the kingdom of heaven - must be won on the battlefields of life. Yet the revealing of this fact that the prizes of life, cannot be attained easily - should never daunt anyone. Indeed, a large part of the value and blessing in any achievement or attainment, lies in what it costs. We grow most under burdens. We get strength in struggle. We learn our best lessons in suffering. The little money we are paid for our toil - is not the best part of the reward - the best is what the toil does in us - in new experience, in wisdom, in patience, in self-conquest.
But, whatever the cost of life's gains, we should be ready to pay it in full. We need not trouble ourselves greatly, either about earthly position or about our greatness in men's eyes; it is infinitely more important that we make sure of growing in the things that belong to true manhood. A distinguished man said, "If I had a son, I would tell him many times a day - to make himself as great a man on the inside, as possible." That should ever be our aim, and on each new birthday this vision of worthy life should be set freshly before us.
This ideal concerns two things - our own growth in whatever things are lovely and true - and our work on the lives of others. One writes, "To be at once strong and gentle, true and kind, to be braver today than yesterday, swifter to respond to earth's music, slower to notice its discords, to have eye and hand growing ever quicker to note and more ready to aid the need around us, to have the voice take a cheerier tone day by day, and the eyes a quicker light - this is to be growing in grace. What higher ideal of life can we have - than that of making a little brighter, sweeter, stronger, a little better or happier in some way, every life that touches our own? Whether we do it by sermon or song, by merry laugh or sympathetic tear, by substantial aid, or 'trifles light as air,' matters not at all - so long as it is done for Christ's dear sake and the bringing nearer of his kingdom."
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