TO ALL PRAYING PEOPLE

[bebita06]

Greetings brothers and sisters in the Lord,

I`ve decided to share my prayer request for people of God to join me in prayer of faith over my marriage.I met my husband in church 5 years ago we were at first friends and then God started our love August 15 2005 we were together 2 and half years before we decided to marry January 18 2008.Throughout our relationship we had problems with my family accepting him.(especially my mother) at first he was strong and stood agaist those issues but after awhile the things she said and he felt from her began to hurt and bring him down to hopelessness.

Trials came our way throughout our relationship things to me most couples don`t face alot.He often got discouraged and broke up with me when we were girlfriend and boyfriend a few times but somehow always ended up together again. One time we that we broke up I remember praying "Lord if he isn`t the one please get him out of my life" and later on I came to find out he shared with me that he prayed the same prayer.

I knew the Lord destined me to be with him from numerous times of confirmation.But the enemy constantly tried to destroy us  with trials of my familyagainst us ,and finances different situations.My husband and I felt in our hearts to marry back in october 2007.We married January 18th 2008.At the court and later on planned to marry at the church.We lived with his mother and problems started to occur within my family and then problems between his mom and i due to me being stressed and uncomfortable.

All this frustration left my husband wanting out .I then left his home back to mine.I was down destroyed depressed and beat.But just like everytime when It seemed like him and i were over something inside of me said NO IT`S NOT! I began reading my word and seeking God like never before . My relationship with God has increased and my sorrow turned into joy and God blessed me with a tremendous increase of faith and strength.

I highly do not believe it is God`s will for divorce and certainly won`t let the enemy take what i know God has given me.My husband recently assured me that he will be talking with a lawyer and finish our reltionship .He says he cant handle my family or this relationship anymore but he still loves me ,but this is over .It doesnt bother me so much because I believe God will restore him and my marriage.I would for all who read s this to believe with me and be  encouraging and help me pray for God`s miraculous restoration that I know will take place .God bless you all

[nChrist]

Hello Bebita06,

WELCOME!

I will be praying for you and your marriage. I sincerely hope that you enjoy Christians Unite, and I look forward to having fellowship with you.

I hope that you don't mind me sharing one thought that went through my head while reading your post. Is there a way to get away from BOTH sets of in-laws? It might not be anything fancy, but it might give you a chance to save your marriage without interference from anyone else. Your husband has already said that he loves you, and your post makes it pretty clear that family interference MIGHT be the biggest problem.

If you haven't tried this, at least think about it. If I got too personal, I apologize.

Love In Christ,
Tom

Ephesians 1:18-23 NASB I pray that the eyes of your heart may be enlightened, so that you will know what is the hope of His calling, what are the riches of the glory of His inheritance in the saints, and what is the surpassing greatness of His power toward us who believe. These are in accordance with the working of the strength of His might which He brought about in Christ, when He raised Him from the dead and seated Him at His right hand in the heavenly places, far above all rule and authority and power and dominion, and every name that is named, not only in this age but also in the one to come. And He put all things in subjection under His feet, and gave Him as head over all things to the church, which is His body, the fullness of Him who fills all in all.

[bebita06]

to blackeyed peas

Thankyou so much for your response toward my prayer.Whne people link up in prayer God is limitless to what he can and WILL do. Don`t feel that you got to personal with the response toward his parents and mine. To be honest you really hit the target with our problem.Which is our parents interfering and starting drama within our marriage.You`d be happy to know that God is in the process now of getting me away from that problem.He just blessed me with a job to be able to move out and take care of my bills and things so that my husband and i can live our lives as one. Thats what i truely believe but thankyou again God Bless

[Soldier4Christ]

Hello bebita06,
Welcome to Christians unite forums.

I, too, will join in this prayer.

My thoughts went in the same way as did Brother Toms on this. Even if you cannot get too very far away rom the rest of the family you both do need to separate them from your life together. This does not mean that either of you do not need to have anything to do with them but rather that you both need to stop allowing them to affect your relationship together. It can be a difficult thing to do but will be necessary to save your marriage.

[bebita06]

I agree Pastor Roger

And thankyou for joining me in prayer for my marriage.I truely believein God to restore us.God is now helping me in the process to separate from my family.i may be the only spouse in this situation that has hope for my marriage but all God needs is a little bit of faith and he`ll take care of the rest. He`s a BIG GOD!

Hello bebita06,
Welcome to Christians unite forums.

I, too, will join in this prayer.

My thoughts went in the same way as did Brother Toms on this. Even if you cannot get too very far away rom the rest of the family you both do need to separate them from your life together. This does not mean that either of you do not need to have anything to do with them but rather that you both need to stop allowing them to affect your relationship together. It can be a difficult thing to do but will be necessary to save your marriage.

[Shammu]

Hello bebita06, and welcome to Christians unite forum.

I will also be praying for your marriage.

[ishi]

Bebeta06,i just got through praying for you,your husband,his and your family.And he has heard,your marriage will be restore.
So rejoice and be glad.
 

[Fre]

I read your request and I want you to know something, "What God has put together no man  put usander"  The Devil is quick and smart.  I do not give him any glory for Glory only belongs to God. Continue to seek God's face he will acknowledge that.  I think that you and your husband should pray together that will help.  In the word it says that when you marry you become one "flesh" so if the both of you hold hands and pray that will run the Devil away.  Also, your hunband did not marry your family.  He married you, because he loves you.  If you can get him to pray with you one more time, before he talks to the attorney, things will work out.  I will pray too.