Amen!
please dont think that i am being nasty as i dont mean this like that, but when you are a man and looking at issues like this it is only natural that you cannt understand the trauma that a woman goes through when making the choices.
while i agree that life is precious and a gift as well for many. for some it can be the most traumatic things a woman can go through. in fact carrying the child and then giving it up for adoption can be worse than a abortion for the mother to be, even tho i know of many that would to make wonderful parents but are unable to have children themselves sadly.
i spent months asking for forgivenes when i had my abortion even tho i wasnt really given any choice in the matter, even now it hurts still and this is a few years on.
guys while i respect your opinions and your comments i am sorry but i have to say that you are looking at it as well from a mans perspective as well as a scriptual perspective.
while i would never encourage anyone to go against the scriptures i do believe that we all have choices to make in life and this for me was the hardest thing i ever had to do, and i pray i never go through the heart ache like that again.
i agree that many dont like to listen to gods word but he himeslf gave us the choice to listen to him or not to, and it is up to us what we do in that matter!
me i would love to have another child but after my abortion i found out that it was my last chance to have children, so every day i ask myself if i made the right choice to terminate and put my 2 sons, now aged 6 and 8, first! personally i dont know and i will never know and yes i am heart broken each time i hear another family member being excited as i wish i was to, but that is what my lord has chosen for me and i accept that! some times i wonder if it was a punishment from him for past wrongs. i know that one day i will find out and who knows perhaps a miracle will happen and my prayers will be answered but only my lord knows the answer to that.
i genuinly dont mean to sound nasty on this matter and if it comes across like that then i apologise but it is a subject that is close to my heart
love to you
jo
didnt realise you had such an issue with a word used so have amended it, apologies but it was done in the moment and typed as i thought at the time