Submission

Currently she and I are working without the courts, but sometimes she and her family haven't a clue how the real world works. Another issue to some extent, except that my ex lives with her parents.

I am just trusting in the LORD for now really and the most important focus aside from the LORD abviously is my son. One of the major reasons I said I wasn't looking is because my time is focused on my son. Things have been going well for now but that's because nothing of serious issue has come up. Last year when we split my son was about to turn one and I didn't get to see him on his birthday or the week after. Another long story, but this year not only does his birthday fall on "my day" but I have him until Sunday. I am getting ready to tell her that I am not giving him up on either day this year as Church is more important than her having a little party. We will see how she reacts. This is when things get tough and she thinks she has full say on this issue. This is also enforced to her by her parents. I am going to tell her she needs to have a little shingdig for him the week before or after but not during as this is my time with him. I will be in much prayer over the issue as it is about to come to pass. We shall see is all I can say for now.