Jabez-
I have the gift of leadership and have served in that capacity throughout the years in various churches.
I think that is wonderfull. There is nothing that prevents you from serving in some leadership capacity, at any chuch.
What we have been discussing here is
preaching in a church gathering setting (such as 1 Cor 14:23-33), where believers assemble as families, both men, woman and children.
Woman are commanded to keep silence, and not teach men.
I was challenged about women as leaders in one of these settings which began an earnest study on this through the Bible and through research.
That is great, if you have leadership abilities, and claim to be christian you should use your abilities for God, teaching women and children.
Unlike Petro would have you believe, while there are extremists in each camp (as you have witnessed) there are many more who have given this subject the insight and Biblical research it deserves with meaningful and Biblical basis.
I am afraid, anyone who disagrees with you being a
preacher teaching men, would be an extremists, in your opnion, but then again, that is your opinion, and it means little, when living for God, what matters is His will be done, not yours.
I have read on both "camps" of extremes and the many variations in between that various Christians believe the Scriptures reveal.
Nothing which you read or have read from the camps are Gods word, they are simply opinions, and like your opinions, mine or anybody else's, they are
all wrong when and if they contradict Gods known will.In this case it is;
Paul, who authoritatively has the final word on behalf of Christ, he wrote in 1 Cor 14:
34
Let your women keep silence in the churches: for it is not permitted unto them to speak; but they are commanded to be under obedience, as also saith the law.
35 And if they will learn any thing, let them ask their husbands at home: for it is a shame for women to speak in the church.
36 What? came the word of God out from you? or came it unto you only?
37 If any man think himself to be a prophet, or spiritual, let him acknowledge that
the things that I write unto you are the commandments of the Lord.And again;
1 Tim 10
11 Let the woman learn in silence with all subjection.
12 But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence.
This pretty clear cut...isn't it??
I would be glad to share that information with you and allow you to discern this for yourself if you like.
No thanks, I wouldn't be interested, in biting into your apple.
IF, you can prove it using the scriptures only, and not others opinioins, or commentaries, I might be interested, in hearing your understanding of sciptures which lead you to believe, you can preach to men and women in a church setting.
But I won't bite, until I see it, completely.
Blessings,
Petro