The reality I'm talking about, Gracey, is the reality that we do not agree. That seems pretty evident, does it not?
No, that did not seem to be the reality you spoke of in your other post, but thank you for clarifying.
I am not a teacher nor do I wish to be known as one
Then what are you doing? If you are not trying to instruct others in the way of the bible, then what are you doing? It doesn't appear to be conversation....
If you so truly believe the words of Christ Jesus our Lord, then you will wish to be known as a teacher:
Mat 5:19 Therefore whoever shall relax one of these commandments, the least, and shall teach men so, he shall be called the least in the kingdom of Heaven.
But whoever shall do and teach them, the same shall be called great in the kingdom of Heaven. Mat 28:19 Therefore
go and teach all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit,
And from Timothy:
1Ti 2:7 To this I am ordained a preacher and an apostle (I speak the truth in Christ, I do not lie), a teacher of the nations, in faith and truth.
2Ti 1:11 to which I am appointed a preacher and an apostle and a teacher of the nations.
2Ti 1:12 For this cause I also suffer these things; but I am not ashamed, for I know whom I have believed, and I am persuaded that He is able to guard My deposit unto that Day.
You are instructing me how to behave.
It is the bible that instructs us how to behave:
2Ti 2:24
But the servant of the Lord must not strive, but to be gentle to all, apt to teach, patient,
Again, he was very clear, firm, and sometimes harsh. He did not kill people with kindness to earn the praises of men. He simply called a spade a spade. He actually called people evil, condemned them to hell, a brood of vipers, confronted their sin, and told the Jews that the blood of this generation will fall on their shoulders for their unbelief.
To a certain degree you are correct in that he was harsh - indeed with the Pharisees, but you will seldom find that behaviour when he was trying to teach.
I don't disagree with everything you say, some things I certainly do, others, not, but I take issue with your disrespect of others.
He did this in the spirit of love and truth,so that they may receive eternal life which IS true love, not specifically to hurt them.
Your "motive" may be what you say, but your methods belie the fact that you are not exhibiting this love, nor the fruits of the spirit. Actions can become a very clear indicator of just what our motives are. The bible does not hesitate to tell us that we should be more than just hearers of the word, but doers of the word.
It is to show that only the teachings which lead us back to Christ ALONE are the true teachings. I hate evil, sin, but love the sinners. When you understand that, you will be able to distinguish real love from of flattery.
I agree, each one of us must not take totally to heart what a man says; prove all things against scripture.
I happen to understand quite well the difference between real love and flattery. How? Once, I was you.
Gracey