Can somebody help me get a girlfriend

[bemanisuperstar]

I'm lonely and I can't find a means of getting a girlfriend in my sinful region.

Can somebody give me a resource for finding a chrstian singles group in my area? (rhode Island)

[Sapphire W34P0N]

...I thought the topic title was a joke. Seriously.

But since I feel like getting this "problem" solved as quickly and smoothly as possible, and before I think of a million ways to poke fun of you; do you see that bar down the left side of your screen? Scroll down to where it says "Recommended Links" and click on "Christian Singles." Now, this is just a shot in the dark, but I think that may take you to a page where you can meet other Christian singles. Now remember, this is all speculation, so don't come crying to me if it turns out that there are no Christian singles in Rhode Island.

[Shemaya]

*giggles*there's a thing for singles here and u can always pray

[bemanisuperstar]

tried.

link me to the singles section

[Patzt]

http://www.singlec.com/index.html

[Symphony]

since when are girl- or boy- friends a salve for loneliness?


"Thou shalt have no other gods before me, and Him only shalt thou worship."

 


("I was lonely 'til I met Henry.  Now, I'm REALLY lonely.   )


     

[Soldier4Christ]

Heb 13:5  Let your conversation be without covetousness; and be content with such things as ye have: for he hath said, I will never leave thee, nor forsake thee.

[bemanisuperstar]

http://www.singlec.com/index.html

One of the worse sties I ever used.

[Allinall]

http://www.singlec.com/index.html

One of the worse sties I ever used.

Was that a typo or did you really mean to call it a stye?    Seriously man,  "Delight yourself in the Lord and He will give you the desires of your heart"[/i]...and..."Seek first the kingdom of God and all these things will be added unto you."[/i]  You won't find the solution to your loneliness in a girlfriend.  I'm not sayin' not to want or look for one.  Just sayin' that God's the only bandaid that will fix your problem.  

[Patzt]

One of the worse sties I ever used.

Sorry about that.  Someone had told you about the links on the left sidebar and it seemed that you couldn't see them so I was just putting the link in here.

I've never used a dating service.  I believe that our God is able and if it's His will for us to have a mate, He will provide that mate.

[Symphony]

this brings up an interesting topic:  dating services.


I don't see how anyone could ever use them.  

(of course, they're advertisers here, so maybe i better shut my mouth.   ).


   

[Bern]

Dating services.. well I personally have never been inclined to use one, but I think some people find it hard meeting other Christians in their area. Perhaps they attend a church that lacks in a certain age range, a good example of this is my own church... we have relatively few members between 18 and 30.. at least members that aren't away at university or some other place. There's a lot of other stuff I could say about dating sites... hehe but... its probably best left unsaid. It often appears that they are a mere recreation of a system that secular society uses to find a partner. But i could be wrong..

[Edward]

Stop looking !! Let go and let God !!!

[spud]

Could it be that your standards are set too high?  Are you looking for the perfect lady or just a beutiful heart that loves the Lord as much as you?  I prayed to the God for my husband and he has blessed me wtih a man that is wonderful.  He is not perfect and neither am .  Blessings to you on your search. My husband is my best friend and I can't ever imagine my life without him.

Spud (the nickname he gave me)

[Bern]

Silver, I totally agree, I don't really agree with "dating", ie.. try before you buy type thinking. I believe that as far as you are able, be led by God to the right person. I don't see the point of dating someone and wasting time and effort on them if in the end you are not right for each other. Its futile and misdierected energy.

People also seem to think that just because someone is a Christian then they must be fine to date. There are a lot of other things to consider aswell, such as their spiritual maturity, doctrinal beliefs etc etc. I think young people especially are too hasty to rush into relationships simply because they "fancy" each other. Thats the worlds way of selecting a partner.