You're sayin' something here bro that I'm likin'!
searching to grow stronger in my walk with christ , with a desire to help guide my family.
And there my friend, you have the best answer you need. You grow, and let your life spill over into theirs. The neat thing is that as long as you grow, you will spill! Sounds odd probably, but it's good. Do right and teach your family to do right. But above all, grow in your knowledge of Him and teach your family what you've learned. When they see it in you, you'll be the best guide you can be.
Welcome!