This is kinda long so please bear with me. About 6 years ago, this christian girl and I started dating & about 8 months ago we got engaged. Recently she broke up with me for reasons I still don't know. My best friend of about fifteen years pretty much stole her from me! We both met her at the same time 6 years ago and we competed for her to be her boyfriend. I won her heart and he has always been jealous even though we have remained good friends. They were also friends while we were dating and now I know that he was always pursuing her in a way because he is selfish. She did not realize it and neither did I(I thought he was over it, boy was I wrong!) She has been working at this school in our church for the past 3 years. About a year ago, him and his mother started working there(his mother is a gossip and nosey). My fiance started getting close to his mom, which I new was a bad idea and she got closer to him too. His mother started telling her that she shouldn't be with me because of whatever reasons and that she should be with him instead. She allowed these people to get in her head and she broke up with me. She said it was for all the other reasons, but I think this is the primary reason. Anyway, it has not even been a month yet and she is with him! How could he do this to me? He is soooo selfish. And how could she give up our future together for him. She told me that she didn't think it was God's will for us to be together and that she wasn't in love with me anymore after 6 years and an engagement. She was totally not herself when she told me all this, I KNOW it wasn't her! It was like she was possessed or on drugs or something. I believe that God allowed this to happen but I don't think that he caused it because the Bible says that God is not the author of confusion. We had each put so much time and money and made sacrifices for our future together. I love her with all my heart. I have gotten closer to God in all this probably than I have ever been and He has been working greatly in my life, but still I am heart broken. Any advice or counsel would be appreciated! Thanks, Matt.
           
 

My name is Matthew Pardue and I would really appreciate it if you would remember me in your prayers.  I am going through some very rough times right now and I need God's guidance and His comfort so much right now. If I can do anything for you in return, let me know! Thanks

Hi all. My name is Matt & I am very thankful for forums like this so christians like us can be able to fellowship and share with each other. I look forward to talking to all of you. Thanks