you may not have meant it to offend that person, but it turned out that way, so it was a provocative word. Since we're in a christian forum, or maybe not a christian one but the fact that you yourself is a christian you should at least consider the part of the other person. You know there are people who are easily offended by words. so just be careful..

Ephesians 4:29 Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen.

to forgive is to forget! as in totally erased, deleted even in the recycle bin. What i mean is that when we forgive someone, we should always make an effort to forget all the pain and all wrongdoing a person has done for us. Well this requires a lot of sacrifice... God did not and would never show off our sins before forgiving us, right! that's it..

hi all im twistedLinen (francess-real name), from asia. twisted linen is mentioned many times in the old testament, and i find it cute for a name 

anyway, im a working lady or shall i say a girl,(i cant say im a woman though) and there are times during office hours that i don't have a work so gotta surf the net and just recently i discovred christian forums, it's kinda educational, inspiring and exciting.. Hope to enjoy in here!

im a southern baptist, and im in music ministry.. that's it for now..