1.) I'm not angry at God - I simply do not believe in him. As I've said before, I'm about as angry at God as you are at leprechauns.
You will someday. I just hope it won't be too late.
2.) To His_child: Yes, I recognize that my (rather sarcastic) comment was in response to Calvinistic thought. Calvinists were my target audience.
Calvinists, like the rest of us, are just humans in need of a Saviour.
3.) If God predestines anyone for salvation, he necessarily predestines the rest for eternal damnation. According to Christianity, God created Hell, he created Satan, he set the stage for man's downfall, etc, etc. He cannot both be praised for the salvation of man and absolved from all blame for the fall and the sadistic nature of eternal punishment. If God is carries ultimate knowledge and ultimate power, then he also necessarily carries ultimate responsibility.
It is His desire that none will perish.
However, He never forces Himself on us.
He is pure and perfect love. If He forced us to accept Him, then that would not be pure or perfect love.
Therefore, He gives us free will. We are free to accept or reject Him.
If we accept Him, then we will spend eternity with Him.
If we reject Him, then we will go to hell.
God will not force you to make a decision.
He does not force anyone into Heaven.
He does not force anyone into hell.
We are to be held accountable for our actions. If a person rejects Christ, he has only himself to blame for landing in hell.