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1  Fellowship / For Men Only / Re: Favorite baseball team? on: August 30, 2009, 06:13:31 PM
I THOUGH EVERYONE NEW THAT AMERICAS TEAM WAS  THE BOSTON RED SOX THIS IS RED SOX NATION RIGHT ANS THIS IS GODS COUNTRY SO WE DONT REALY HAVE ANY OTHER OPTIONS , DO WE ? Wink
2  Welcome / About You! / old member back checking in on: August 30, 2009, 06:06:47 PM
Hi everyone , just sitting back enjoying reading different threads, not sure if anyone remebers me. never posted much. havent benn on in years.

im now 49 father of five , married. just dropped of my daughter off at college in Boston today.

I'll keep in touch, its nice to see a lot of the old names around on the sight.

Butch.
3  Fellowship / Just For Women / Re: Submitting to Husbands on: February 19, 2006, 01:19:43 PM
god bless you and keep praying
4  Prayer / Prayer Requests / Re:mom has cancer on: May 06, 2005, 07:32:12 PM
Bronzesnake and felix thanks
Bronzesnake,i printed off what you wrote to show others in the family.
felix,im doing well i have a lot to keep me busy, work,wife,5 kids all in sports soccer,football, and softball. im running around all the time to the games and or coaching , not much time to get depressed, besides its not whom i am.im the guy in the family helping everyone else. just useing  God,and ChristiansUnite Forums members for suport Grin

                 brother butcha



5  Welcome / Questions, help, suggestions, and bug reports / HAPPY BIRTHDAY on: May 01, 2005, 07:03:31 PM
T Grin    ME

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ME.

45 YEARS YOUNG TODAY , MY WIFE AND KIDS WERE GREAT TO ME TODAY, ITS FUNNY HOW EXCITED THEY GET.
, OVER IT.
6  Prayer / Prayer Requests / Re:mom has cancer on: May 01, 2005, 07:00:15 PM
thanks all, ya ive been here before lost my father to cancer when he was 54.my sister has beat it for now had it 2 yrs ago. its all part of the deal, but still not easy.
7  Entertainment / Sports / Re:Baseball or take me out to the ball game.... on: April 30, 2005, 09:35:22 PM
 Grin ya thats wat im talking about
8  Entertainment / Sports / Re:Baseball or take me out to the ball game.... on: April 29, 2005, 07:46:16 PM
RED SOX

WORLD CHAMPIONS Cheesy

NEW ENGLAND PATROITS

WORLD CHAMPIONS Grin

THATS ALL

P.S. DOLPHINS      Roll Eyes      YANKEES  Tongue
9  Prayer / Prayer Requests / mom has cancer on: April 29, 2005, 07:38:16 PM
 Embarrassed, kind of down today, life is strange ive fought hard for a big promotion at my job ,its been a tough battle i finnally got it, come with a lot more money and responsibility. i was so excited yesterday this morning was my first day as the boss , after 28 yrs of working here i finnally was takeing over. big meeting this mornning with all the employees, all pumped up ,right. nope i got a call last night from my mother whom im very close with shes 66 and has breast cancer. so never the less today im humbled again and realize life, time and people are worth more than ego and money.

anyhow sorry for carrieing on would like anyone whom feels upto it to pray for my mom eleanor ,thanks butcha
10  Prayer / Prayer Requests / Re:school on: April 29, 2005, 07:27:46 PM
hey felix, good luck . what you doing going off to college what year.
11  Prayer / Prayer Requests / Re:Prayers needed for my wife on: April 29, 2005, 07:25:07 PM
just some thoughts, my mother and law is 76yrs old just went through very similiar stuff 4-6 months after the operations she thought it wasnt worth it . she was have a bad time with rehab. now its been 13 months and she walking and doing things she couldnt do 5 yrs ago and shes very happy. for awhile she was getting into a depressed state . so try to remember its not going to be fast recovery but should be worth it. lots of luck  butcha
12  Entertainment / Television / Re:Little House On The Prarrie on: April 27, 2005, 10:57:11 PM
I enjoyed the remake miniseries.  I saw Part one.  Part two and three were supposed to be aired but then there was the Papal funeral documentary instead.  I wonder when it has been rescheduled to.
we watched allsix or seven as a family it was all good Smiley
13  Entertainment / Television / Re:Old TV Shows Remembered on: April 27, 2005, 10:54:53 PM
you missed one

it came on tv every night after hazel






the

ghost

and

mrs

muhuer

not sure on the spelling
14  Fellowship / For Men Only / Re:Give Advice Here on: April 27, 2005, 10:41:09 PM
Butch, I think you are very intuitive.  I am not insulted.  He knows that I don't feel loved, and I guess I have felt that it was my own fault for not doing something that he needed.  He's known for quite a while, and just never did anything about it.  Now all of a sudden, he's decided he must not be doing something right if I don't feel like he cares for me.  So since you realized that maybe I am just trying to get his attention, is that the wrong route?  Should I hold back more and be more distant?  What should I do?
its not your fault, nobody is to blame.you know deep down that you are great and hes lucky to have you.dont try to play any kind of games or tricking him . we men are horrible with hints suggestions and clues. my wife will tell me something, im listenning, im paying attention and i still dont understand.

so try to express your feelings and emotions as clearly as posible, and then help him and guide him what you need want and excpect . because if hes a good guy he'll rise to the occation.
judge not is right, when he said the following.
 
When my wife says to me “You are a good provider…” it makes my day/week/month.  Complimenting a man’s ability to take care of his family is SO important… Some men may down-play it, but to REAL MEN it’s the best compliment he can get and it is a compliment that WILL get you results.

 but i dont think its him that doesnt feel the love.that being said if he deserves this copliment give him it or any other one that he deserves , but dont just give him lip service be honest.

what would be better if your husband said......
 you are the most beautiful woman in the world.
or
to me your the most beautiful woman ive  ever known.

i also get the feelling you are somewhat of a push over, its good to be nice but , maybe he needs a little more of a challenge
if this applies think about how you could work it into your relationship, and im not talking about fightting or argueing. i mean a positive challange for him . you probebly give of your self to no end with little in return ,are you mentaly challenging him? im sure you would like him to be your best friend how would you treate a best friend and expect them to treate you?
any how this relationship stuff is always a work in progress. and it sounds like your headed in the right direction . its alot of work. and he does love you, i know this, but he just doesnt have the ability to know how to get you to feel it, this is were woman are smarter than men, and you need to teach him, how.(to any woman who read this i didnt mean as though woman are not smarter than men in other areas).
lots of luck, and oh if he is somewhat into god and all, you may at sometime want to pull out the trump card, and ask him if he'll pray alone or with you to have jesus guide you both in this.but your timeing has to be right,for most guys.

good luck butch Smiley


15  Prayer / General Discussion / Re:THE NEW POPE on: April 24, 2005, 04:50:04 PM
AND SILLY TOT U ALL WERE GOING TO TAKE DIS SERIOUSE Grin
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