hey do you think this guy really likes me or not whenever i see him like coming my way i always look at him by saying hello with a really big smile and glowing. this guy looks back at me and stares into my eyes with a huge smile and a big wink and is lit up like a christmas tree. what do you think

my church has a single and couples class but i'm the only single their the majorite of people at my church are married and the ones that are single in the youth department i really do not go to church that much since i'm in college. besides i have looked else where at my church , i even went walking in local parks , the library other place liks depatment / grocery stores and none of these places i find anybody. really i 've gone to  college off and on due to a car accident and my fathers illness for awhile this guy is the first man that has approached me in a long time cause a couple years ago i went out with someone who attend church very strong in their faith but this guy wanted me to quit school he did not like the fact i attended college. just like last semester i went out with someone before i met the guy at school and the person i went out with believed in God but he really liked me but i had no feelings for him this person had already gone and finished college ready to settle down but i'm not and could not understand the fact i'm working on a career was busy he thought i could spend every lasting minute. i feel like the best place for me to meet someone is in college cause, i'm not ready to settle down yet, i do feel after college though i can get married right now i'm interested in starting a relationship and taken it slow i do not have to spend evey last minute with somone just start off by getting to know someone. i do not know if the guy at school is the person that God desires me to start a relationship with or not. i can tell you this my feelings from last semester to starting liking this guy to when i was apart from after fall semster ended my feeling grew stronger for this guy. now that the spring semester has started there even stronger by me able to approach him  rather than last semester i would let this guy approach me first. i did test this guy to see if he missed me or still likes me or not the first time i saw him this semester i was eating lunch with my back to him i notice he saw me he could not take his eyes off of me had a very sad look cause i did not see him which i did though  and made sure i saw him when he left. now i go up to him when i have the nerve and talk to him and he still shows feelings toward me but since we do not see each other much he smiles and winks  at me a lot and we talk when we have the time compared to last he just started to show some interest by the personal questions he would ask like i'm married or a bf and open the doors for me. i guess only time will tell it just hurts and lost without him to not see this guy he always brightens my day i see it his eyes i do the same and this guy has changed me for the better i'm a much happier person than before i was still sad after i lost my dad this guy took some of that pain away when he came into my life. i just wish there was a way for me and this guy to get to know each other even with our busy different schedules i will wait on God and see what happens and pray.thanks

even with he's good qualities and that i like him and he seems to like me cause when i see him i smile at him and he smiles/ winks back at me with his face all lit up. the thing is mine and his schedule are different for this semester we only see each other twice or once a week in passing  and we both have a busy schedule not like last semester 3 times a week but that was only because he had the same math teacher i had. i know i should be patient  and wait on God but it really hurts to be apart from this guy , i do cry alot to God for this guy i know that sounds crazy but i've never cried over a guy before especially being apart from him cause, he's all i think about eveyday seeing i miss him and i even pray  that God will bless over him and protect this guy and his family. i've never had any luck with men cause ,i'm really shy and usually men don't have any thing to do with me because of my faith and the other i've remain a virgin but this guy is very different towards me he gives me respect and does not laugh at me because , i'm shy he tries to get me to open up which i do at times and at times he's the one who acts shy. i know the saying absence makes the heart grow fonder when  last semester ended i thought i would never see this guy again now i see him but not as much but we still show an interest in each other cause if this guy did not like me he would ignore me as me or him walked by instead he always speaks to me and looks back to see if i'm looking at him which i am. i just wish that God would allow the right time and moment for us to know each other rather than passing by and saying hello or giving a smile/wink seeing our schedules are diffrent and very busy. i just feel torn inside and i know when this guy first saw this semester and i thought i did not see him all he could do was stare at me the whole time he looked at me as if he wanted me to see him and he seem sad that i did'nt but i did not want to be too obvious and just stare at him but he could not walk up and talk to me but he made sure though that i saw him as he walked by me. what do you think

no i have not had a chance to with us only passing each other between classes and were both going full time to school and we work. maybe if we could ever get a break and know where the other person is at on campus we could sit down and talk. which he did moved from WI to TN so it is a change but i do not know how WI people are about faith of course he's orginally from Chicago, his first time living in the south and he chose Tn because, of the climate. i guess i need to wait for Gods timing it's just discouraging cause i want to ask this guy these questions especially about his faith and really get to know him but i'm willing to wait on this guy if thats what God wants me to do.

 thank you for the advice what would be some qualities without asking them if there a christian you know if this guy is godly or not. he's hardworking honest polite, sweet , gentle, caring , thoughtful and friendly well manner person and he has respect for me. family is important to him , he does not dwell on looks or money not the material things in life always seems to be  happy never raised his voice or lost his temper, he was in the military for 6 yrs. see waht you think?

 thanks for the advice could it be possible that this guy is my match or my soul mate. last semester when i started school the guy who i have a crush on let's say his name is neil. we would pass each other and we even sat beside each other and we acknowlodge the other person but we never really talked to each other. until one day this same guy started to stared and smiled  which he approached me first and i smiled  looked back.he really did not do this until  after one year of my fathers death which i was still down about that and also when i prayed to God to send me a nice guy. when this guy neil came into my life it made me feel alive again be a better person and he took  some of the pain i was feeling when i lost my father i have never been so happy. i feel and see a change in my life i treat others better than before my taste in music has changed no more hard rock now all i listen to is softer music love songs and country , pop  and christian music. clothes and other material things in life are not important to me as they was before or looks in a guy either i fell for what 's on the inside of this guy not his looks but he's not ugly either just a average looking guy who i think is very hansome in his own way. but life itself is worth living because of this guy. everytime i see him he always has a smile on his face and winks at me that he's happy to see me this always makes me feel special. i'm always showing him i'm glad to see him with my big smiling face. i will be patient and wait on Gods will.  

he's only hinted to me about lunch and he works full time and takes about 20hrs in school like most college students we have to work on the week-ends. he does know that i have a brother who is a pastor which this guy did not ignore me or look at me funny when i mention that he still talks to me and i do wear a cross necklace and does'nt seem to bother him like most guys i've thought they were great or went out  on a date with  and does not like the fact i wear a cross necklace or a brother who's in the minstry. not this guy he talks to me more and ask alot of personal questions like if i'm married or have a bf or what is my plans after college  where i'm going to live do i want to get married and have children.

 i do not know we just meet last semester and barely know each other. he does know i have a brother that is a pastor and i do wear a cross necklace which he can see  neither of these seems to bother him in fact when i told him my brother is a pastor he talked more but i have not come out and told him i'm a christian we only see each other in pass ing going to class not much time to talk alone but if i could ever get the chance to know him better and ask about is background and his beliefs.

how about this last semester when the first time me and this guy would pass by the other  between classes and we even sat beside each other neither of us looked at each other. it was not until when i prayed to God to send me a nice guy to me after that this guy started to notice me and went out of his way to get me to notice him. could this be a sign

 this week at school i have saw him twice and he was really happy to see me. he did not once ignore me even though last semester i gave him a card / letter telling what a sweet, wonderul and nice person he is and how he made me feel special on the things he said and done for me. i 've only had the guts once to walk up to him and say hello cause i'm afraid if i say anything i'll scare him away. he's really the one that does most of the talking while i freeze up and panic which i beleive he knows it because he always speaks to me and tries to get me to talk. i've prayed to God to give me courage and give the guy i like more courage and open to me i've just been hurt a lot in the past and i do not know what to do.  

yes he does and i'm busy too with school , work and my family. but i do not want him to think i've lost interest.i saw him at school and usually i would let him approach me seeing i'm a shy person  but instead i approached him and we were both glad to see each other and we talked for awhile. i will see what God has plan for me and this guy if it's Gods will.

  thanks for the advice but this guy is at school all day and does not eat lunch a lot of times. also he wears like the same clothes at school now this does not bother me i do not care if he's rich or poor and i do not want to come out and say this to him cause i care too much for him. i feel like he wants to go out by him mentioning lunch to me. i think he feels like he has no chance with me by being in college and if he's on a tight budget cause he visits his family a lot in WI  and him living in Tn. i did talk to him this week at school which made him feel special instead of me waiting for him to talk to me. i just worry about him not eating enough, working and taking a lot of hours in school , visiting his family a lot with no time on his hands.

i started back and i saw him eating lunch but he was eating with people from his class. he did see me but i think he thought i did not see him i did not want to be too obvious my back was to him so all i could do look over my shoulder to see if he notice me and he did by staring at me the whole time and then made sure i saw him when he left by walking by the window. were just both afraid to approach one another in a crowd of people which that is the only time we see each other is in the lunch room so how can two people who are shy get together and know one another. is this possible thru God that two shy people can get together if it's Gods will and with our busy schedule with school and work that me and this guy will be able to get to know each other better thru Gods will. seeing that i prayed to send me a nice guy and this guy came into my life and even though i was apart over a month i still thought about him a lot and prayed each day to God about this guy and my life so how else can me / him start a relationship if were both busy with work/ school even though i can not get him out of my head.

 i did mention to him that i have a brother who is a pastor and it did not scare him or make him stop talking to me , he talked more to me. i'm not afraid to tell anyone that i'm a christian but i have not had much time to really  sit down to talk to this guy the issue is not to scare him on me being a christian i don't mind to tell him that just the  general things by approaching him cause this guy is very reserve and so i 'm i. i guess i need to make him feel more comfortable seeing we just barely know each other i don't want to push him in a corner i need to warm up things first with him like his family background then once i know alot about him then he feel more comfortable around me than being afraid to approach me.

how does a guy or girl know that God sends your soul mate to you and what is the characteristics of a guy and girl of knowing their a christian or not. i met this guy where i go to college and we barely know each other and i prayed to God to send me a nice guy to me a week later this guy appears in my life do you think God answered my prayer i think so. seeing we just met neither of us know if the other person is a christian or not we really have not had a chance to talk alot. i'm a christian but this guy's character is quiet , piolet, sincere, kind , honest , caring, shy and happy person a real gentlemen who wants to get to know me and not the type of man who is after a womans body , he has given me alot of respect who is never harsh,, mad or gets angry and does not use foul language.i lived in the south all my life but this guy who has not lived here very long originally lived up north and mid west area so were from two different cultures. he does know that i have a brother that is a pastor which did not bother this guy when i mention it so how can i tell without asking him if he is a christian or not cause i don't want to scare him away and how do i know what God's purpose is with me and this guy who came into my life after praying to God sending me a nice guy. i have prayed to God to bless over this guy life whatever the situation is his life and watch over and protect him cause, i really care for this guy would not want anything to happen to him and we both know we like each other.