Dear Peachy,
It is my experience that truly loving God first, you will be led to the deep human love that you are hoping to find. Don't compromise your expectations for finding a Christian man. God does have someone in mind for you, and being "stubborn" won't be a cause for missing him. I believe love happens at many ages, there is no timetable... just Faith in Him, and that he wants you to have love in your life. And when it happens, the love will be greater than anything you can imagine! It is worth the wait!! Be patient! I promise I speak from experience.   Best wishes. In His peace, A.