Hi thanks for the reply and I DID READ all the scriptures you suggested--I know when We lived together before we married that it was wrong -I have prayed for forgiveness and know that i am forgiven and would never do anything like that again-I mentioned to my husband about a month ago about the fact that I get criticized etc so often and said to him maybe some marriage counseling would help-He emphatically said to me "I WOULD NEVER GET MARRIAGE COUNSELING"-which of course is not a good idea -he  has trouble seeing his own faults-I AM open to reading scriptures and talking to the pastor about our problems (which he thinks we do not have)-in fact th pastor is coming to our place tomorrow night-we are not sure why he is coming he just mentioned sunday at church he wanted to stop by-I feel I should mention something to my husband tonight before he comes over that I think some marriage counseling is in order--I thank you for your response-Please pray for us--If I had it my way I would pack my bags-move home-but I know according to th bible I have to do it the LORD's way--My husband is so hard to live with at times -after  1 1/2 years of living with him- I just feel I could burst with stress-he has a lot of anger from what happened in his first marriage-she committed adultery on him--he is still vey Angry about all of this-- I understand it-but he has to let go of that anger-I feel I am getting the brunt of his anger because of the failed marriage-He was only divorced  barely  2 years when we remarried--so I feel like My whole world is falling down on me--Just pray for us OK  thanks and GOD BLESS

HI LADIES  --I am new to this forum and izineed prayers and some good christian feedback!!I was divorced  in 1991-waited several years to look for a husband because I loved my 1st husband so much!! and prayed we would reunite and it did not happen-  starting in 2000 I looked on christian single websites and after a while- met a man-we saw each other 4 times in person for about   6 days each time- -then I moved to his place about  500 miles away-we lived together for 5 months--(That was a bad mistake) then we got married--married now about 1 year--I wish I had moved up here and gotten my own apartment and dated him ( a platonic relationship) and then maybe I would have known what to expect but MY problem now is I am very unhappy !!with this man--- I know the Lord does not like divorce --But I also know The Lord does not want us to be miserable--Does anyone know some good scriptures I could read about a situation in marriage like this-? -I have not said anything to him-I am not sure if he senses how I feel or not- He is one of those guys that STUFF goes right over his head  you know what I mean?--I feel stuck between a rock and a hard place--I want to go home and get this marriage annulled!!!! but  don't know what I can do and not expect punishment from GOD-maybe I would not -but I am not sure- I am a christian for many years  now--but not as learned as I could be about bible scriptures etc.- PLEASE HELP WITH SOME ANSWERS HERE    Thanks and God Bless--Please write soon I am so anxious about this mess I am in