My favorite author of Christian parenting books is Dr. Kevin Leman.  He is pretty humorous to listen to too.

erdoc77 -- I have been in two different churches that experienced something like you are describing.  When people get aggravated and vent their anger amongst the congregation, it can cause a church to split.  Rumors and gossip get started and before you know it the snowball turned into an avalanche.  I would follow the biblical advise that Pastor provided and address your aggravation one on one with the deacons and express your concerns about splitting the church.  If your view is shared by others, the elders need to address it.  When a minister leaves and people in the congregation are attached to him, a lot of people do leave.  It may be hard to realize, but sometimes it is God moving people around to fit His plans.   

I am very happy to have found this forum.  I started out on the wrong foot by putting my URL in my signature line.  Sorry, Pastor.  I didn't view it as advertising.  I hope all is well with my profile now.

I look forward to fellowship with you all...