Hi Everyone! Thank you so very much for the advice. I really think that the "surprise" idea will work wonders. We live out in the middle of nowhere on a farm, so the great outdoors is a great place to let off some steam. My husband pretty much leaves the teaching and disciplining to me. He will step in if it is a situation that I can't handle. I love him with all of my heart...sometimes me "handling" the children is fine, other times it is exhausting. I will definately pray for God's guidance in me being more consistant. That is something that I am definately not in any aspect of my life. Again, thank ya'll so very much. God Bless!!