I think that our biblical duty to being a godly wife is not what we do but instead being who God created us to be.
First to seek Him and then ask for the vision that the Lord has for our lives and be that person that he made us to be and then we will fullfill His will for our lives equipped with the gifts and talents that He has given us. We can only do this through our relationship with Him.
We can only be the women that He desires when we keep the Main thing, the main thing.