Hi,
re: submitting to Husbands. When you have a husband and you love him you will work it out where you don't
feel you are really submitting, you just love him. It doesn't mean you give up everything. Yes, he is the leader of the household, but he is not to abuse leadership, but then you are his helpmate. You make decisions together. It is a good thing when you have a husband and you connect and love him for it. I hope this makes sense but don't think to much about submitting yet if you do not have a boyfriend. God will make you and him ready for each other.
bless you,
His JOY!