I know this site is just for men. but maybe I need a mans view point. I really need a man to talk to that has been unfaithful to his wife , and dosn't seem to know why. I have read all the books on lust issues, I guess I need to hear it from someone else, that it isn;t about me.I promise no male bashing. I just need help understanding if there is any understanding.

I hope you are still using this board. I really ned help here.
I feel like I am dying. I found out, in June, my husband had been unfaithfull for a year. Their baby is due this month. He is working so hard at putting things back together. I have never seen hi, so comitted. I know I will never love another. I am so scared. Sometimes I think the pain is stronger than the love. But then I am still here, so I know it can;t be.I really need someone who has been here and has seen complete restoration. I don;t feel like anyone can understand.I have never hurt so much in all my life.

I hope I am ok doing this.I don't want to rain on anyones day. I just need some help. I guess someone to talk to about a serious problem.