In the past my brother and his bride of 4 years have been alternating Thanksgiving and Christmas between our family and her family.  This year was scheduled for Christmas with us and now we have found out they will be with her family for both holidays this year.  We all love the Lord and when I asked my brother what was going on he got nasty with me for inquiring as to if this would be the norm.  My family all live close and her family is 3 hours away.  They just had thier first baby and my heart hurts with the seperation I see going on.  I'm trying to give this all to Him and let Him handle things but then the evil one brings anger to me about the situation and so I pray and pray and pray until the ick is gone.  My wonderful husband says I should just let the holiday thing go and focus on getting together the other 363 days to build relationship.  I don't exactly know why I'm putting this out here for the world to read except for the feeling that this happens to many families.  Looking for scripture or advise to help ease my heart.

I can keep going because of Him,

sad sister