Submitting is simply being open to receive.  Not so much getting bossed around.  The Godliness of it all and what is demanded and what is expected is all depending on what a person's idea of submission is all about.  Some people just hear the word, "Submit" and they hear, "Get bossed around"  Submitting and getting bossed around are two totally different entities.  Submitting is really being open to receive.  "Wives, be open to receive from your husbands."  He is supposed to be taking care of you as he is supposed to be taking care of himself.  He may need to guide you in order to take the maximum amount of care of you.  Be open to receive instruction, be open to receive guidance, be open to recieve . . . all the good things a man can offer you.

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